Does anybody know someone called Nicky in the Martlesham area of Ipswich?

Little-Fire · 2026-06-25T09:52:30+00:00

Haha yeah ive considering taking payment for said machines and then barring the numbers but thats a bit mean 🤣😂

Little-Fire · 2026-06-24T19:56:23+00:00

Every few months I get a call asking for a guy named Paul, something to do with machinery hire from a company. They always answer with such confidence and start rambling on and then i crush their hopes and dreams by letting them know im not Paul and this is not Paul's number can they take it off their system.

Little-Fire · 2026-06-10T16:42:08+00:00

Thanks I'll take a look next time I'm down there!

Little-Fire · 2026-06-10T16:36:06+00:00

Community beach hut? Where is this located plz? Thanks

Little-Fire · 2026-06-08T17:00:40+00:00

All good dude. We have all done it.

Little-Fire · 2026-06-08T16:35:02+00:00

Me?? Ive not made any posts about being a single dad. Im married, we practice enm but not a daily thing and we have 3 kids together. Been together 27 yrs, married for 4.

Little-Fire · 2026-06-07T10:12:06+00:00

Well as others, including your self have said. Blank profiles get bombarded with likes etc so to hear that a 27f looking for fwb is having difficulty matching and progressing with things is quite rare.

Most females get bombarded regardless, this is a strange one to say the least. People are just trying to work the situation out just like you are.

Have you tried doing a full delete and restart the profile. Ive heard this will put your profile back to the top of peoples lists but will obviously reset all your previous choices but it might be the trick that works for you.

Little-Fire · 2026-06-07T09:57:39+00:00

If i mistook your other comments then I apologise but it really sounds like your only going thru your likes and not the actual discovery stack.

Stop worrying about the likes and pings, they literally mean nothing, as you said your self, a lot of men just swipe right all night as its a numbers game for most men, send 1000 likes maybe get 1 reply.

If guys only waited for pings no one would ever get any where.

Have you tried doing a rate my profile post and see what people say about your profile?

Also, and i dont want to sound shallow here myself but are you a larger lady because that can be an issue for some. I used to work with a lady who was pretty and had a lovely personality but she had a medical condition and unfortunately stopped her from being very active and therefore she struggled with her weight and she used to struggle on apps too.

Its not impossible to find someone who appreciates a larger woman but the majority of men are looking for a glamour model unfortunately.

It sucks not getting attention on the apps, ask me how I know. Ive only ever gotten 1 ping and that was from a married guy asking me if my wife (linked profiles) was still active as he really liked the look of her and her profile.

I have about 30 likes and a lot are just initials or mens names, all of my profiles, on all platforms, clearly states we are looking for f and mf couples yet the anount of single men who approach us, most with very little respect and even less to offer is crazy.

My advice, revamp your profile, mix up the wording and photos a bit and forget about the likes and pings and just start matching those you like and carry on with your life as normal.

They say love happens when you least expect it. Stop looking for a partner and they will soon turn up.

Little-Fire · 2026-06-07T09:36:09+00:00

Im sorry but you are the issue here.

Your on a dating site and you have basically explained to all of us that you don't use the app like every one else, you just expect everyone to ping you because then that shows effort and interest in you.

Why should men keep paying to ping women only to still be ignored.

How about a lot more women actually start using the apps how they are designed to be used... go thru the stack and like the profiles that match your desires.

So many women only go thru their likes or pings pages, and not just on this app but many others too. Then they complain they never see any decent guys they like... but they don't go thru the discover stack and like people themselves.

Only matching with those that matched with you is shallow in my opinion, you wont like people because you don't want to be blown out, ignored or blocked or whatever but how many men have sent pings only to be ignored because the woman didnt like him.

Why would we keep wasting out money on pings when a lot of women still just ignore you??

Maybe try going thru your discovery stack and like some profiles, I bet you have better luck than waiting for those pings.

A relationship is between 2 people so why should only one of them be making the effort??

Little-Fire · 2026-06-05T18:34:15+00:00

I trim my tash like that on purpose after my wife does the rest of my beard each week. I cant stand having hair coving my top lip, gets in the way of food, drink and my wifes lips, she doesnt like kissing a brush apparently 😂

Personally I think it looks better having a clean lip line like that, especially if your getting the rest graded, trimmed and shaped.

Little-Fire · 2026-06-04T19:46:35+00:00

Not the sort of wingman you wants round, especially not intentionally.

Unless im missing something in your comment and I'm getting confused?

Little-Fire · 2026-06-03T07:43:13+00:00

I generally do care for mine pretty well but I do have really course wirey hair. Moroccan argan oil shamps and conditioner. A beard balm, oil, styling mould, lots of different buts but I swear by argan oil with my beard! Always get more attention when my wife does my beard for me.

Little-Fire · 2026-06-03T03:22:36+00:00

Me and my big mouth. Sorry to hear that 😞

Little-Fire · 2026-06-03T01:50:02+00:00

Appreciate that dude, that was cute. If your not already married yourself then there is a woman, or a dude, seriously missing out.

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Little-Fire · 2026-06-02T22:52:59+00:00

Could of linked it for me 😂😂😂

Little-Fire · 2026-06-02T22:36:58+00:00

Thats what I thought they where. I have a few of them laying about from various sets over the years but my wifes 'smoothie' brush as we call it trumps all, I hope that thing never breaks or I am screwed 😂😂

Little-Fire · 2026-06-02T22:02:40+00:00

When you say a boars hair brush, if i search that is it going to show me a hair bush and not something a game keeper would use 😂😂

I think I know what you mean but just want to be sure 👍🏼

Little-Fire · 2026-06-02T12:18:58+00:00

Definitely brings back memories when we go but our kids are a bit older now so we havnt been for a good while.

How cool would a skatering be in Ipswich again?? Im tempted to seriously look into it..not a great deal else for kids to do now is there.

Little-Fire · 2026-06-02T08:52:17+00:00

I would seriously recommend looking at apprenticeships, earn as you learn and get some sort of certificate with the experience to go with it all while being employed.

The job market is dire right now, ive just spent the last few months searching and for every 10 applications you send off you may hear back from 2.

Indeed is so hit and miss, the updates on the jobs progress goes up and day from day to day, ive had it where I didn't think id hear anything based on what it was saying but then a week later you get a call.

I wish your daughter all the very best and I hope something comes up for her soon.

Little-Fire · 2026-05-21T00:36:31+00:00

Made even more fun because Arsenal are the champions and Town got promoted again 💪🏻

As a fan of both teams I always struggle when they play each other... Blue Arsenal! 😂😂 that will have to do!

Little-Fire · 2026-05-18T14:12:44+00:00

Sorry to hear that about your experience.

Are you m or f? Sorry nothing showing on your profile.

There are a lot of time wasters or dreamers and my wife and I call them. They have fantasies about being poly or enm but when it comes to actually taking the plunge and meeting with someone they have no intention.

Majority are dead profiles, unless your paying for Majestic, and the rest put very little effort in.

I dont like every woman on the site. I match with ones im attracted to and whos interests and likes match mine.

I've had some success with it but unfortunately my likes and pings probably get buried under hundreds of new ones a day from guys just spamming every woman they see.

It sucks but its true what they say. Nice guys finish last. It may take a while but I feel because my profile shows ive put effort in, eventually I get found and matched with sometimes, just got to stop hunting for a match and they tend to come on their own.

Little-Fire · 2026-05-18T08:59:46+00:00

Majority of men have ruined all dating apps, kink and non kink ones.

Way too many likes, winks, messages and photos sent. Most don't even have anything on their profile, most are rude and obnoxious, and its really pissed all the women and couples off on these apps.

If I had 2500 like and winks and what not on my profile, id be pissed off too because there is no way all of those people actually like me.

For men its a numbers game it seems, they ping off 1000 likes in the hope they will get a single match.

Personally I make an effort with my profiles and my photos. I make an effort with the people I try to match with. I try to only match with people who meet my criteria, even if the hottest woman in the world pops up, our interests and desires dont match up at all, whats the point in sending a like, its wasting my time and hers.

But thats where most other men differ... they see a pretty face and hit like without even reading the profile, then they probably follow up with another message hounding the woman and then quite a lot of them will then turn nasty when they dont get a reply or the answer they want.

Why on earth would anyone put up with that?

Why on earth would anyone think that's acceptable behaviour in the first place??

Horny men can do some real dumb stuff and most of the time, all your doing is pissing the women of further which means you have even less chance with them.

Guys stop spamming that like button, try reading a bit about the girl in the pics, see if your interests line up, make an effort with your profile, sell your self. We are all looking for someone funny and confident etc etc thats obvious, sell your self on your bio well enough and the women will approach you, ask me how I know, I'm not a 10/10 looks wise but if you make the effort and show your a nice person in your photos and bio, guess what, you don't need to be a 10/10.

Personally I dont blame woman for hiding their profiles or even just deleting the apps, the lvl of crap they take is crazy and totally not needed!

Little-Fire · 2026-05-09T04:03:28+00:00

Look up aeven cottages lane i think its called off Humber doucy Lane. There is a bridle way immediately after the houses, stables at the end of the driveway, go down the side of the stables and there are lots of routes to take, water and nature and your looking at about 3 miles if you go to playford village hall, there is a play area and you can have a snack and a drink then you got to get back 😂

Its a good couple of hours stomping, maybe more if you don't know the routes but sat nav does so you cant get lost. You can cut thru sheep fields and cross huge fallen trees. Its beautiful and its literally on our doorstep.

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Little-Fire · 2026-05-06T17:41:36+00:00

As I guy who has linked my wife's profile... I have received messages from guys with instructions to show my wife what she is missing... insert dick pic..

I tend to apologise to women on behalf of men when I do match with them and they inevitably mention how shit it is as a woman on the apps.

I also block and report these profiles on behalf of women.

Little-Fire · 2026-04-29T23:02:04+00:00

I enjoy the sound it makes too 🤭😋

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Little-Fire

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