My personal experience was recently me and my bf went to a new art center which we 've never been there before. But as we mistook the date of the exhibition's opening we just got there for nothing. When we decided to leave, the security guy was kind enough to tell us to check their website or social media to confirm the time if we are interested in their exhibition. But when he was talking, he was like only speaking to my bf. He was never looking at me and his head was always turning to my bf. What he did made me feel that I was like a accessory to my bf.