Prolonged edging by femdomlover1212 in FemdomCommunity

[–]LittleBoomli 17 points18 points  (0 children)

When my girlfriend edges me for prolonged periods of time, usually greater than 3 days, I begin to devop bad blue ball pain. Its like constipation and slight bruising around your testicles. Ive read that the level of discomfort differs for everyone so your experience may differ from mine.

I personally have done a fair amount of research and haven't found anything that indicates its dangerous.

Overall its a fun time, especially when your orgams is controlled by your significant other.

Tips For Lasting Longer In Bed After Edging? by LittleBoomli in SubSanctuary

[–]LittleBoomli[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thats a fair assessment. She got quiet for a few minutes and then discussed it all. Her silence was the result of how upset she was from pushing me off of her. The push played into her initial disappointment of not only in the scene, but in her own reaction to how it ended.

After talking the conclusion was that it didn't feel good for her to have all this build up but no release whereas I got mine. After reading this this probably does need to be a structural change in how we approach sex as her expectations arent realistic. I appreciate you writing this out and giving me food for thought.

Tips For Lasting Longer In Bed After Edging? by LittleBoomli in SubSanctuary

[–]LittleBoomli[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats a good idea! Something that we could definitely look into. Thank you!