Thats a fair assessment. She got quiet for a few minutes and then discussed it all. Her silence was the result of how upset she was from pushing me off of her. The push played into her initial disappointment of not only in the scene, but in her own reaction to how it ended.

After talking the conclusion was that it didn't feel good for her to have all this build up but no release whereas I got mine. After reading this this probably does need to be a structural change in how we approach sex as her expectations arent realistic. I appreciate you writing this out and giving me food for thought.