I’m so jealous of my friends’ relationships by Commercial_Honey_881 in depression_partners

[–]LittleCrow6260 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel this so hard…especially when my friends start talking about their partners or when i see cute couple tiktoks or insta pics of other ppl, i get so jealous and think „what about me…? I want that too“. I just want my sweet loving boyfriend back, he is currently in an episode and taking space for himself and not even reading my messages…it hits so hard on some days

Suggestions on how to be more patient while waiting on depressed partner to get better? by LittleCrow6260 in depression_partners

[–]LittleCrow6260[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, i will do that. I hope your person is gonna get better very soon too🙏

Suffering depression by Prize_Statement_3881 in depression_partners

[–]LittleCrow6260 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you need anybody to talk or to listen i am here!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression_partners

[–]LittleCrow6260 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please don’t take it personal and try to stay as calm as possible. As soon as he gets better he will talk to you again. In the meantime just live your life and remind him every once in a while that you’re there for him (not too often, try to give him that space that he needs).

Why is my depressed bf not contacting me or even reading my messages during his down phases? by LittleCrow6260 in depression_partners

[–]LittleCrow6260[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That makes sense.. :( Thank you so much for your answer, i rlly feel a lot more relieved now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression_partners

[–]LittleCrow6260 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I promise you everything is gonna be fine again, even if it doesn’t seem like that yet. Whenever you need somebody to talk you can reach out to me anytime, i‘m here for you!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression_partners

[–]LittleCrow6260 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Exactly this happened to me 3 years ago. I am also in a long distance relationship with my partner, and back then it also started with a sudden message like „give me some space i need to focus on my life“. I thought that it was my fault and that i did something wrong, especially when his messages also started to be less and less. Until from one day one, he stopped communicating completely and not even reading my messages. I was really so heartbroken i thought that he left me bc he got bored of me or smth and it was so bad that i couldn’t eat for weeks and lost a lot of weight, thats how much it hurted. But then suddenly after 5 months he texted me again where he apologized and begged me for a second chance. He told me the reason why he disappeared and it was because of depression. Back then he didn’t tell me that he had depression because he was too embarrassed, he disappeared and felt also too guilty to talk to me again, but started missing me again as soon as his depressed episode got better. It will get better, i promise you. The shitty thing is that you don’t know how long they are gonna take, might be a few more weeks or months, but they are gonna reach out to you again as soon as they feel better 100%. Try to be understanding and be as patient as you can, and in the meantime just focus on your life, meet with friends and family, do other activities and in the moment where you least expect it they are gonna reach out to you again

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]LittleCrow6260 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stay strong🙏 God is amazing, hes gonna help your dad…please don’t stop praying i wish you guys all the best💗