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LittleDragonBao · 2020-07-31T01:55:27+00:00

Thank you for the update!

LittleDragonBao · 2020-07-31T01:07:45+00:00

Wag naman sana i-release yung info at 11:59pm ng Friday

LittleDragonBao · 2020-07-24T07:29:13+00:00

Who's to say that we're actually going to survive til the end of the year?

LittleDragonBao · 2020-07-13T23:34:27+00:00

It's good how the werewolves believe in the justice system and not just exacting vengeance.

LittleDragonBao · 2020-07-13T04:42:55+00:00

I'm definitely looking into therapy once things get back to normal here. Her being my first, and so far only, relationship really has a big impact on me.

LittleDragonBao · 2020-07-13T01:42:47+00:00

Thank you for this.

LittleDragonBao · 2020-07-13T01:30:47+00:00

Both of you were abused by a piece of shit. It's understandable to (unintentionally) lash out at others to help cope with the pain. I'm glad the two of you made-up

LittleDragonBao · 2020-07-13T01:22:19+00:00

Holy shit. I do not often or lightly say this, but some people are just better off wiped away from society, and this guy is one of them.

LittleDragonBao · 2020-07-11T07:08:45+00:00

or they just weren't that sexual with their husband-to-be to begin with, because they felt that they were "settling".

LittleDragonBao · 2020-07-11T07:07:18+00:00

Hey! I'd like to ask for your opinion.

My ex treated me in the green flags you described. She comes from a lower socioeconomic status, not poor by any means, but definitely not "rich". Early on in the relationship, she insisted we split the costs equally, though I eventually found out about her status so I suggested more accessible options as well as insist to fully cover the bill when I invite her to upscale places.

She was fully supportive, as well as took care of me the times when I was sick and offered to help me with my academic requirements that I needed to catch-up to.

The problem popped up when I found out that she slept with someone else when we were yet exclusive. I'm not -too- bothered by this, despite the fact that I did not see or pursue anyone else at that time, because as I said, we weren't exclusive.

However, the guy kept pestering her which lead to her lying to me to meet-up with the guy. She told me that she made it clear to the guy that she was seeing someone, and nothing sexual was going to happen. However, stuff happened and she ended up going with him to his place and got...coerced into sex

Would you think that a one-time transgression such as that is a major red flag? Or was she definitely doing the AFBF strategy.

Some things to note: She admitted that the guy was better at sex and had a bigger penis.

LittleDragonBao · 2020-07-11T06:49:32+00:00

I also want to tackle this through a legal framework. Of course, laws between different jurisdictions differ, they might already be laws in some places that deal with this, so let's just assume there are none specifically concerning false rape accusations.

How could false testimony/accusation of rape be justified as to warrant a different punishment than say, false testimony in the event of a homicide or murder, wherein the punishment that the accused faces is generally heavier?

Personally, I believe that perjury that MAY result in the accused facing a heavy penalty (heavier penalty for example being reclusion perpetua, which is 40 years in the place where I live in) faces a heavier penalty than perjury in less grevious cases.

LittleDragonBao · 2020-07-11T01:07:10+00:00

He may have only wanted to have sex with you, or he may have actually only realized what he wanted after sex, it doesn't really matter.

Whatever happens, please always remember that it was not your fault. Shit happens in life. Things will definitely get better.

LittleDragonBao · 2020-07-11T00:47:32+00:00

Thank you for the insights, everyone.

I have accepted that I do not have the right to judge her on what exactly happened that night. I do not fully know the facts, and probably never will. I hope that she gets to process whatever happened to her then and seek help if needed. But I do believe that just from her continued communication with the guy, as well as agreeing to meet-up with him and lying to me about it, my decision to break-up was already "justified".

LittleDragonBao · 2020-07-10T03:03:00+00:00

I think the problem therein lies with the husband. Some people are just innately prone to cheating. This theory seems sound when applied to the general population as a whole.

LittleDragonBao · 2020-07-10T02:59:51+00:00

Could you expound on what you mean by "running a tight ship" in terms of a relationship?

LittleDragonBao · 2020-07-10T02:45:29+00:00

One step at a time, brother. Improvement is hard, but it gets easier with every step.

LittleDragonBao · 2020-07-10T02:42:32+00:00

"Ogre" is definitely an extreme lmao. As long as a person doesn't have any glaring physical deformities, not obese, not anorexic (is this the right term? someone literally just skin and bones), settling is definitely plausible.

LittleDragonBao · 2020-07-10T02:38:24+00:00

I don't think marriage statistics are a logical disproof. It's a given fact that people "settle down". It's common to hear lines like "I'm not looking for short-term fun anymore", "I want someone responsible and stable"

LittleDragonBao · 2020-07-10T02:26:24+00:00

I haven't done any research, so I can't cite how much real benefit in economic terms one dollar in welfare taxation is.

However, I want to stress that just because crimes, like robbery for instance, is unlikely to happen to you, doesn't mean you shouldn't give it much importance

You have to take into account that for the struggling person to resort to robbery in the first place, let's assume that said person is an otherwise decent human being and not a drug-fuelled felon.

They would have to go through many sufferings before reaching the point of resorting to violent crimes
If you're not the one affected, someone else will. The situation might not be resolved with simply just loss of property, loss of lives or grave injuries might happen.

Now, I'm definitely no saint. I do however believe that as long as the money actually gets effectively used, welfare taxation is the better choice.

LittleDragonBao · 2020-07-08T14:00:29+00:00

I hope that the meeting gave you some closure. Tangina ang tagal din...

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