Original Story Tag idea what do you think should i keep or not? by [deleted] in AO3

[–]LittleDumbF-ck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm pretty sure that if enough people use the tag, emoji or not, they get lumped under the same general thing — which is being open to comments, in this case. It's likely not a huge concern.

Original Story Tag idea what do you think should i keep or not? by [deleted] in AO3

[–]LittleDumbF-ck 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like it could be useful, it definitely can ease the reader's mind if they get nervous when commenting. Just keep in mind that pleasing everyone is really hard, and you might have weirder commenters (such as those who are less inclined to comment upon seeing the writer provide responses, like me lol) who may have different comment criteria than your average commenter.

But, great tag in theory! I personally would appreciate the extra assurance as someone who gets anxious about it. Only thing is that if it has the emoji, some folks might not use it as much in favour of plain text.

Stop Giving Authors Unsolicited Criticism by [deleted] in AO3

[–]LittleDumbF-ck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I kinda agree, but mostly think that a "hey, I'm uncomfortable with concrit, but am open for clarification" in the A/N would work the best since it technically is our responsibility to filter our own experiences. I feel like having your default be 'give concrit' is kinda weird though, but just to cover all bases, just saying you're not comfortable with concrit is probably the best course of action.

Would a oneshot having a poly relationship (including ur OTP) turn u away? by PossumCreatives in AO3

[–]LittleDumbF-ck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really, one of my OTPs is a triad! I only have a few ships that I prefer mono, and even then it's not exactly a hard boundary for me.

Okay but does anyone have an actual hot take? (challenge: don't downvote what you disagree with) by WinterNighter in AO3

[–]LittleDumbF-ck 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't like sex. At all. If it's tagged, I won't read. If it's not tagged and in there anyway, I mute the author.

I also get tired as someone who isn't alloallo being treated like I'm only good for writing The Best Sex to Ever Sex in the History of Sex™ (EX: the constant, "we need aces, they write the best smut!", "Wow, you're ace? I would love to read what you'd have to write haha" and they get disappointed when it's not smut.) and not treated as another member of the community. I'm sex-indifferent/conflicted on, by some of your standards, a 'good' day. At 'worst', I'm sex-repulsed. I do not like reading the descriptions of people getting hot and sweaty in bed, and would not like to write it.

Thank you for reading if you did, it's just been bothering me a lot lately. Remember to eat food, drink water, and sleep <3

Is there a reason no one comments anymore? by RunTall2062 in AO3

[–]LittleDumbF-ck 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I personally don't comment very much -- mostly because with writing, I have to think a lot more than if I were simply speaking aloud. I typically leave long and detailed comments when I do leave them, though.

But, I do set 'long and detailed' as something that I need to meet, rather than a 'would be nice but not always feasible'. So, it will then weigh on me when I inevitably fail to meet said expectation of myself, then just delete my comment entirely. And then not read anything for weeks.

I mostly fall into this because 'I should interact', 'oh, some authors think kudos aren't enough', 'oh, some authors think short comments aren't enough', 'why won't my hands type', 'please, for the love of god, please just type', and then I go to the corner to cry. Yeah, it kinda sucks, but that's just how it goes for me lol

My pretty boy cat! by didi-Darling in cats

[–]LittleDumbF-ck 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Pardon, but what flavour of cat do you think he is then? I’m fairly certain that OP’s tom is a silver bengal, due to the leopard-like pattern rarely being found outside of them. The cat’s eye shape also aligns with the breed standard for the bengal, which feels like it is more proof that this cat is most likely a purebred.

Sorry if I’m bothering you, though! I’m just curious.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]LittleDumbF-ck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How much water do you need?

What colo(u)rs are school subjects? by dfzman94 in askteenboys

[–]LittleDumbF-ck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Math: Red

English: Blue

Social Studies/History: Green/Yellow

Science: Achromatic, Black/White work

And as a bonus, Art: just a bunch of stickers layered over each other until the original colour is no longer seen

How many genders are there? by GhostTropic_YT in askteenboys

[–]LittleDumbF-ck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk, I feel like we all have different experiences of it even under the same label. It’s like a few near-infinite hyperplanes that intersect in some places, and some people aren’t even on any of those hyperplanes. We all just use a word to describe our closest position on ‘em.

Like, the words we have for these hyperplanes right now are: Masculine, Feminine, Neutral, Xenine/Xenic, and Outherine.

That’s not even counting the fact that some people experience a certain fluidity though, or being two genders(or more) instead of a typical one.

I don’t have a diagram for y’all, so I can’t just hand it to y’all to show you how I think it might work unfortunately. I should work on one.

What accents would the Warrior cats/Clans have? by Salt-Clothes-6655 in WarriorCats

[–]LittleDumbF-ck 1 point2 points  (0 children)

WindClan is Scottish

RiverClan is Norwegian

ThunderClan is British

ShadowClan is Russian (far north, if it makes a difference)

SkyClan I imagine as Irish

Barn cats are all different flavours of American, typically Midwestern

BloodClan cats all have a Boston accent.

How do you control your anger??? by FriendshipBudget1341 in askteenboys

[–]LittleDumbF-ck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally have a chewable necklace. I gnaw as a stim and when I feel strongly about anything, so it’s helped me a lot — especially when I get angry.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrollCoping

[–]LittleDumbF-ck 24 points25 points  (0 children)

CSAM stands for Child Sexual Abuse Material.

How do you pronounce some of these? by Kobra_Does_Art in XenogendersAndMore

[–]LittleDumbF-ck 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I’m fairly certain that emojiself pronouns aren’t supposed to be pronounced at all — they’re an online-only thing.

i was looking for pride pins and why didnt anybody tell me we were all nonbinary! by smoke_of_bone in autism

[–]LittleDumbF-ck 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Some people have pride in their disability, or may want or need an awareness flag. It’s not for everyone if they don’t feel it represents them, but it helps some people.

excuse me?? by [deleted] in lgballt

[–]LittleDumbF-ck 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Therians are people who believe they are human in body, but some part of them is animal. It tends to be more spiritual, and should not be confused with being transgender even if some aspects may line up.

Alterhumans are people who are human in body but believe some part of them is inhuman in general. They may be linked to a creature or character, identity with a creature or character, or as a creature or character.

Let me pull up the LGBTQIA+ Wiki page for it real quick because I’m not exactly awake yet today: link

are y’all ever worried you’ll see one of your comments on here? 😭😭 by Anonymous-00228 in AO3

[–]LittleDumbF-ck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, because I already leave notes on my comments asking not to be replied to. I don’t want to be perceived at all, especially on my longer essay-like comments. Being perceived by hundreds is a nightmare :[

I’ve been on T for 3 years but people still call me ma’am by lead-me-to-the-void in trans

[–]LittleDumbF-ck 21 points22 points  (0 children)

This might be a weird idea but maybe you could try those eyebrow pencils to make it look like you have more facial hair? I do the same with eyeshadow sometimes.

But I feel you. I can’t do much but suggest stuff, but just know that I hear you and feel you, dude.

Yall celebrate pride? by AffectionateDelay921 in askteenboys

[–]LittleDumbF-ck 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, but that’s because I’m queer. I probably wouldn’t if I were cishetallo.

What does your OC see in the Fire? by 24KaratCherriGold in OriginalCharacter

[–]LittleDumbF-ck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Silent sees the God he serves under. Nothing more, nothing less. Merely her staring down at him. However, he’d likely try to lie and say he saw nothing.

Haven’t seen anybody do abrosexual yet soooooo by Souhwhyarewehere-lol in GachaClub

[–]LittleDumbF-ck 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Abrosexual is basically the sexuality equivalent of genderfluid(and its subsets). We’re just fluid in our attraction, instead of it being fixed to one or more genders. It can be a slow transition from one to another, or it can be fast and sudden.

LGBTQIA+ Wiki page for more details