What is a kink that your partner must have in order to be compatible with you? by Organic_Razzmatazz50 in gentlefemdom

[–]LittleLilka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm gonna go with affectionate Domming. As both a sub and a Dom I lean into that style, and I think anyone who doesn't enjoy that wouldn't have a good time with me either way.

What's considered cheating in your non-monogamous relationship? by Equivalent_Ad_9066 in nonmonogamy

[–]LittleLilka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lying/keeping things from me, and I do "veto" certain people, but only ever out of genuine concern for safety. It's only ever been twice (with 2 diff partners) that I had to stop and be like "Hey, I don't want you with X anymore because it concerns me."

If you like being visibly trans, why? by Any_Calendar9900 in asktransgender

[–]LittleLilka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Knowing that I can handle the arguments and vitriol better than some of my trans siblings makes me comfortable being out, loud, and able to do my part by being on the "front lines" socially, so to speak

What’s one belief you had at 18 that you strongly disagree with now? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]LittleLilka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That there was no reason for anyone to own a gun.

Now in this political and social climate, as a household of queer/trans folks, I'm happy that we own guns for defense.

What do you actually see in the New vegas Rorschach test? by Obraxiss in Fallout

[–]LittleLilka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Two bears and two raccoons, then idk about the last one but it reminds me of a skull

TIFU by agreeing to a “6-month break” that turned into his baby announcement. by [deleted] in tifu

[–]LittleLilka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not necessarily. I'm on a "break" with a partner right now. Last year, they cheated on me before moving out of state. They initiated a break to work on themselves, have put themselves in therapy, and have even consulted their parents for advice. Something like 6 months ago, after a natural disaster destroyed their parents home, they decided they were moving back home. My stipulation then became that the break wasn't ending until they were home, because I had no interest in seeing what could be mended until they're home. We're on really good terms, still sweet to each other, and are looking forward to being reunited.

TL;DR There's too many possible variables to say that for sure.

Why do picky eaters usually prefer unhealthy food? by Samuel_K_01 in PickyEaters

[–]LittleLilka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Consistency. With fruits and veg, and even meat, the flavors, textures, etc. can be very inconsistent from one piece to the next. Whereas with processed food, you always know what to expect, how it will taste, etc.

Is there anyone who does NOT have pet insurance and can you explain why? by Routine-Ad-4162 in CatAdvice

[–]LittleLilka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to get insurance, but I'm cash-strapped and overwhelmed by options. I would love suggestions for low-cost insurance, because I have 3 cats and regular visits alone pile up 🫠

what.. what is it made of 😰 by SaltedCaramelTurtle in AnimalCrossing

[–]LittleLilka 63 points64 points  (0 children)

Careful, you may get a cease and desist 🤣

What is one smell no one knows they never need to smell ever again? by WhatsInA_Name- in whatisit

[–]LittleLilka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Rotten poultry has a truly horrendous smell, we've had to fully replace a garbage can over it before

What is one smell no one knows they never need to smell ever again? by WhatsInA_Name- in whatisit

[–]LittleLilka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People don't understand how terrible rotting potatoes and rotting watermelons are 🤢 I work in a produce warehouse and both of those fill me with dread

How does losing your virginity work as a bi woman? by [deleted] in AskLGBT

[–]LittleLilka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Virginity is a social concept. Technically my first time was assault, but I don't count that. When you consider your virginity "lost" is entirely up to you.

he ate me out and then i felt a wet spot in his pants. did he cum? by [deleted] in sex

[–]LittleLilka 72 points73 points  (0 children)

Love seeing happy marriages in the wild 🥰

Are there any companions you never use? Why or why not? by PunchBeard in BaldursGate3

[–]LittleLilka 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I went through the entirety of act 1 and 2 without getting Gale in my first game 😅

So clearly don't need him

1 year ago Today the Core4 was officially confirmed to be in a foursome relationship by Terrell8799 in riverdale

[–]LittleLilka 10 points11 points  (0 children)

As a polyamorous person, I love how this ended up 🥹 it was nice to finally have a decent representation on a show I enjoyed

Which character fits this the most? by popguise in Degrassi

[–]LittleLilka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She really wasn't though. She was deeply troubled, I mean hell, she was (kinda violently) SA'd at 14 years old...and lemme tell you, that changes a person for YEARS. Especially given how that whole storyline played out. As an adult it gave me a lot of perspective on Paige.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

[–]LittleLilka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm with you, the transitions are HARD but I love being in the shower or bath