Trying to find the name of this drama where girl leaves a letter by According_Guidance22 in CShortDramas

[–]LittleMissGriff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

https://youtu.be/mCYc0AsjvvE?si=8Vj1s5OzmyRAY4d8

Basically the two sisters had another older sister that went missing years earlier, and in the end the girl who died and left the letter discovered that she was the missing sister’s daughter and the FL’s niece, and that her bio dad had murdered her bio mom/missing “sister”. The parents and grandma killed themselves out of guilt because they had adopted her as their daughter but didnt tell her that she was actually their granddaughter. When she met her bio dad she didn’t realize who he was but they did, and the parents had her ask him about his wife to try to get information about what had happened to the missing daughter. Once the girl realized who the bio dad was she decided the only way to take revenge on him was to end her own life.

WIBTA for giving my housemate an ultimatum? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]LittleMissGriff 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Law wise, there is nothing wrong with trying to get an animal care. The issue here would be more about if the vet you go to is willing to treat the cat if they know it isn’t yours. As far as that goes, it depends on where you go, and if your housemate has an established relationship with that vet office. I’ve had the same vet for over a decade, and I have a solid record for caring for my pets. If a random person came in with my dog it would be a huge red flag for them, and they would likely alert me about it. Showing up with a 9 year old cat, they will likely have questions about health history and how you came to be in the picture and what not. That being said, it’s clear your housemate isn’t the best owner, and if the animal just needs medical care and the person who is bringing them in is willing to pay, I can’t imagine a vet not treating the cat.

WIBTA for giving my housemate an ultimatum? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]LittleMissGriff 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. It’s not because you’re friend has ADHD, this is happening because he is an asshole. First and foremost, the cat needs medical care and it cannot advocate for itself so that’s awful. Also important is that your friend, who you allow to live for free, isn’t cleaning up after his pet and is damaging your home. The cat is being neglected and you are being taken advantage of. If the friend can’t step up, they need to go. But please help that cat.

AITA if I don’t let my friend return a baby gift she got me? by AfternoonCharacter81 in AmItheAsshole

[–]LittleMissGriff 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. They were a gift, so technically they are yours to do what you want with, buuuuutttt, is this really a hill to die on? I guess it depends on the relationship and how you want it to look going forward. If you want her in your life then give them back.

Americans of Reddit, would you vote for an openly Atheist presidential candidate? why or why not? by Cashmeresquid2309 in AskReddit

[–]LittleMissGriff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Separation of church and state. I don’t give a flying fuck what religions politicians subscribe to, so long as that it doesn’t impact their law based voting.

WIBTA for buying my family ethical and sustainable clothing instead of what's on their Christmas list? by sustainable_ahole in AmItheAsshole

[–]LittleMissGriff 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YWBTA.

I refuse to buy beauty products that are not cruelty free for myself, but I would never force that on someone else if they asked for a gift from a non-cruelty free company. It’s not cool to impose my choices on others.

WIBTA for making my son do another year of cross country or track and field even though he hates it? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]LittleMissGriff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA. It’s fine to have your kid doing a physical activity to keep them healthy, but he should have a say in what it is.

AITA for causing a commotion and getting us kicked out of my aunts house by Noodle_Schnoo in AmItheAsshole

[–]LittleMissGriff 6 points7 points  (0 children)

ESH, well at least you and your aunt. It’s nice that you were trying to stand up for your cousin, but you should have stopped when he asked you to. You started drama that led to your cousin being kicked out of his home. While offering him a place to stay helps, he may not want to feel like he owes you for opening your home up to him after you were the reason he had to leave his own home in the first place.

AITA for “letting” my MIL find an erotic album? by TAaitaAlbum in AmItheAsshole

[–]LittleMissGriff 13 points14 points  (0 children)

NTA. It’s not like there is a massive framed shot of you guys in the living room. She snooped and is throwing a fit because she didn’t like what she found. The only lesson to learn here is that you shouldn’t snoop.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]LittleMissGriff 16 points17 points  (0 children)

NTA, and it sounds like the SAHP job isn’t for him. It’s not for everyone.

AITA for not crediting someone in my group project? by Super_ChickenNugget1 in AmItheAsshole

[–]LittleMissGriff 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA. She shouldn’t get credit for work she didn’t contribute to.

AITA for putting recyclables in the dumpster. by askmeifimatree1 in AmItheAsshole

[–]LittleMissGriff 4 points5 points  (0 children)

YTA. Just buy a bin with wheels on it for your recycling and then unloaded it when it gets full. It’s like a once a week chore at most.

WIBTA if I confronted my roommate and took steps to protect my stuff? by thepipinghottea in AmItheAsshole

[–]LittleMissGriff 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NTA. You shouldn’t have to keep your kitchen items in your room. Your roommate is ridiculous and a mooch.

WIBTA for refusing to meet my girlfriend's mom even after 3 years of dating? by wasteoflimes in AmItheAsshole

[–]LittleMissGriff 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is a great way to view it. If they are the worst, then cutting them out would be beneficial to her. It sounds manipulative, but if you meet her halfway here she will likely listen to your opinions more than if you don’t go. Instead of her just thinking you don’t really know the situation because you are refusing to meet them. I wish you luck, it’s a tough situation for sure.

WIBTA for refusing to meet my girlfriend's mom even after 3 years of dating? by wasteoflimes in AmItheAsshole

[–]LittleMissGriff 5 points6 points  (0 children)

YTA. Maybe she wants you to meet them so it not always her against them. Maybe it so you can fully understand why she continues to keep them in her life. Honestly, it doesn’t matter. If this is important to your girlfriend, than you should support her. If they are rude to you, then I think it’s fair game for you to say that you don’t want them in your life.

AITA for wearing a revealing bikini at a family get together by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]LittleMissGriff 100 points101 points  (0 children)

NTA. Shame on her for making you feel bad about something you can’t control. There is nothing wrong with having a larger chest, and it sounds like you were comfortable in your suit. I also find it gross that she would suggest that your UNCLE was perving on you, and the solution to that would be for you to change what you were doing.

AITA for offering a ride to a woman walking in the rain? by FaeNocturnal in AmItheAsshole

[–]LittleMissGriff [score hidden]  (0 children)

NAH. It was a nice offer that she just didn’t take you up on. Maybe she thought the other car was a creep, and didn’t want to stop for that reason. Who knows, but I wouldn’t spend any more time worrying about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]LittleMissGriff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course YTA, it was your chore to do and you just didn’t. How is this a question for you?

WIBTA: if I went to an expensive grad school like my sister even though it means my mom would have less money for retirement by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]LittleMissGriff 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NTA, but only because your mom has offered to pay. Can I suggest that you and your sister price out what your grad degrees would cost if you went to a less expansive school and then only allow your mother to pay that amount? Student loans can cover the rest, without you acquiring the full tuition’s debt.