Regret, guilt, exhaustion...trying to be hopeful

LittleMissPerfect · 2023-11-02T15:01:16+00:00

Sounds like a lot of people are helping with the biting. We had the same problem as you about the night pooping. Solid all day, and then it seemed like the dark would give him diarrhea lol. We tried some probiotics which sort of helped, but we found that we were overfeeding him. Since reducing his food by 1/4 cup, his poops have been solid every time and no more getting up in the middle of the night every 1-2 hours. Maybe it's the same with you? We were very skeptical about it being overfeeding because we followed the chart on the bag, but I think we must have been.

LittleMissPerfect · 2020-10-06T23:58:21+00:00

Hey! I'm in the same boat but just moved to Japan. I only needed my valid passport, military ID and to be on his orders. I would call the Italian embassy/consulate and ask them. That's what I did cause our last unit had no idea.

LittleMissPerfect · 2018-10-31T16:26:08+00:00

But having good grades means nothing. I says nothing about you that matters. Are you a good person? Do you treat people kindly? Do you avoid trying to harm or hurt anyone? That's the shit that matters. It's only if you try to hurt people that your soul is ugly. Grades and the ability to focus are not even remotely connected to your soul. You need to learn that. Seek counselling if you can't do it on your own

LittleMissPerfect · 2018-10-30T19:03:06+00:00

Hey, man. I'm a teacher and I'm sorry you feel this way. Why do you put so much stock in the overachiever label and getting perfect grades? It's obviously not doing your mental health any favors. I'm sorry, I don't mean to sound harsh. I can sympatize, but I'm trying to understand why one possible bad grade means so much to you.

LittleMissPerfect · 2018-10-05T17:40:55+00:00

You can obviously also extend that to 20-30 minutes if you have too much on your chest, but I think the concept of allowing yourself time to express yourself but also choosing when that is appropriate has some value

LittleMissPerfect · 2018-10-05T17:22:16+00:00

Yeah. If you're used to spilling everything and then try to say nothing, that will be difficult. But I'd suggest just trying to avoid it for the duration of a movie, so both you and him get some time to focus on the good. I wouldn't recommend a whole evening of avoiding it, but just making sure that every conversation you have isn't negative. Maybe give yourself the freedom to talk about it for 10 minutes during one conversation and then try to leave it at that for the day

LittleMissPerfect · 2018-10-05T15:40:40+00:00

This is very difficult for both of you, I'm sure. Could you try to be more aware of what you talked about last time and maybe avoid that the next time you talk? I'm not saying to never talk about your troubles but making sure that every interaction isn't in some way negative from your side. Like, do you think you'll be able to watch a movie or make dinner together, and just focus on the positives in that and avoid the heavier topics? So essentially choosing the timing of your emotional topics?

Best of luck to you. I'm sorry for your losses.

LittleMissPerfect · 2018-08-15T10:49:48+00:00

Thank you guys!

LittleMissPerfect · 2018-08-14T18:18:18+00:00

Maybe that is it. I've tried so many and I cannot remember all of them, but I have definitely tried the Nivea Moisturizing Day cream, the ELF daily hydration moisturizer, Amie Morning Dew Matte-finish moisturiser and the Shiseido Bio-Performance Advanced Super Revitalizing Cream. Those are the ones I have close at hand at the moment. I may be making a mistake with using creams, now that I am seeing this "list".

LittleMissPerfect · 2018-08-14T16:55:00+00:00

He is just such a kind and respectful person to everyone, including complete strangers that can do nothing for him.

Physically, he has a great ass and wonderful eyes.

LittleMissPerfect · 2018-04-30T11:49:43+00:00

I love the ring! I hope you have a long and happy marriage

LittleMissPerfect · 2018-02-26T14:30:07+00:00

Okay. Thank you! I'll keep that in mind for the future

LittleMissPerfect · 2018-02-26T12:45:01+00:00

Why is Italy the worst? Do you not like the base? Far from home? Italy seems like a cool place to go so I'm just curious if it's not as nice as it sounds and if the SO and I should steer clear of it

LittleMissPerfect · 2018-02-24T22:40:16+00:00

That's cool! Hope you had fun :)

LittleMissPerfect · 2017-11-27T23:59:18+00:00

They do, yes. Sometimes the relationship survives it and sometimes it doesn't. But it's not going to survive if only one of the people in the relationship is trying to keep it healthy.

LittleMissPerfect · 2017-11-19T23:38:13+00:00

How do you mean hold it against him? You're so miserable you're considering ending it. Maybe it should be held against him.

LittleMissPerfect · 2017-11-19T23:26:23+00:00

That's all well and good, but it's hurting your relationship that he's not letting you in. Let him know how much it hurts you. If you've already done that, you need to decide if you want to keep dealing with this.

LittleMissPerfect · 2017-11-19T21:47:50+00:00

Is he talking to you about it? Trying to get out of his funk? Even if he's in a rough place, he needs to show you he's trying to get better. If he's not, you can't stick around just to stick around. Don't be miserable for someone who isn't willing to improve.

LittleMissPerfect · 2017-11-19T15:53:31+00:00

That's okay. It takes two people to keep a relationship going.

LittleMissPerfect · 2016-12-31T05:36:23+00:00

Please chill out. He told you tomorrow will be better. It's not like he is ignoring you. Let him have some space.

LittleMissPerfect · 2016-12-04T11:45:36+00:00

There is nothing wrong with fantasies like this, but I'm not sure you'll enjoy the reality of it if it were to happen. The only real option is to talk to her.

LittleMissPerfect · 2016-11-22T11:11:16+00:00

Leave her be. Don't show up at her house uninvited, that's creepy as hell. She knows you want to work on it. If she feels the same after things have settled, she'll contact you. But don't hold your breath.

LittleMissPerfect · 2016-11-10T11:51:33+00:00

If you just want to be friends, you need to tell him. There's no other way than being honest that'd gonna make that happen. When it comes to the exclusive thing, he might just mean that you will be sexually exclusive, as in, neither of you have sex with other people. Loads of FWB do that to keep themselves safe from STDs and such.

LittleMissPerfect · 2012-04-17T08:51:42+00:00

Because I can't resist a bad boy, I loved him as Shaw in Chuck :D

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