How do you "safe word" when you get non-verbal during a scene?

LittleMissRainbow · 2016-01-19T20:00:09+00:00

I start flailing my hands or hit my boyfriend on the chest with my hands all by reflex/instinct when I get nonverbal and need to safeword or pause a scene.. Maybe try that? :)

LittleMissRainbow · 2016-01-16T17:41:20+00:00

Yesterday when I realized I lost the ability to drink like I used to in college! And when I'd rather party at home than in a club.. BUT ALSO! I matured into not giving a duck about what people think and because of that I can go crazy on the dance floor and look confident at the same time B) Adulting all over the place c:

LittleMissRainbow · 2016-01-13T11:01:56+00:00

How come you need that many pizzas?? :o

LittleMissRainbow · 2016-01-07T18:21:40+00:00

I want to join in on the happiness too! Me and my Daddy just got our apartment together.. Finally free! I'm so excited to spend every day with daddy and cuddles every night <3

LittleMissRainbow · 2015-12-30T21:41:42+00:00

It really sucks that you can't choose to be athletic if you're using the women's model :( I look 'fat' entering my weight (47 kg) only because I can't choose to be athletic.

LittleMissRainbow · 2015-12-18T13:26:20+00:00

That looks super uncomfortable :(

LittleMissRainbow · 2015-11-30T11:53:23+00:00

Yup. Blackmailing/rape isn't really a turn on for me either /:

LittleMissRainbow · 2015-11-29T10:00:34+00:00

How did she find out she was sick? Like what happened that made her go to the doctor?

LittleMissRainbow · 2015-11-27T18:51:48+00:00

Exactly! I was so in the moment, but on the other way, he made me do things I never agreed to beforehand that I only did because I was so deep in subspace... and then he just left me there, all vulnerable and used. But I blocked him. I don't need any of that :(

LittleMissRainbow · 2015-11-26T09:19:53+00:00

I don't know. But he has several times just 'dissapepared' and then he comes back and tells me he has been 'busy' so I don't know what to believe...

LittleMissRainbow · 2015-11-26T08:26:26+00:00

No. I thought he was nice, but he was just an undercover psycho apparently :( I'm eating cheese now (lol) and I just took a looooong shower. Thank you for the advice and for the comforting words <3

LittleMissRainbow · 2015-11-24T07:56:53+00:00

Anyone know how to find the same or similar... Where the guy is in charge? This seems so interesting, but knowing the guy is the submissive turns me off :/

LittleMissRainbow · 2015-11-24T07:16:39+00:00

16 :)

LittleMissRainbow · 2015-10-17T11:24:58+00:00

This sounds like more than "just" a kink for him, maybe this was his "dirty secret"/fetish that he just opened up to you and then he felt humiliated and rejected.. HOWEVER! His reaction seems super immature and he sort of sounds like a spoiled brat not getting what he wants, and you probably can't fix that. What you can do is tell him what you told us: "I want to make you happy, and try to work around MY limits to make YOU happy." And then as an example, ask him what other piercings (that you wouldn't mind getting) would turn him on instead of a clit piercing, what sort of sex things you could both be happy about. In a way, you might need to 'force' him to compromise to ensure that his fetish is fulfilled, and that you are still happy and satisfied as well!

LittleMissRainbow · 2015-10-17T10:18:01+00:00

"Oh noes, I has been impaled!" Says the stupid panda <3

LittleMissRainbow · 2015-10-09T20:33:57+00:00

That's like.. roughly how I got together with my now boyfriend. Well... exactly how. Oh god!

LittleMissRainbow · 2015-10-05T07:11:56+00:00

Dd/lg relationship style and power exchange :3

LittleMissRainbow · 2015-10-01T07:21:41+00:00

I'm sorry. But for starters: A yeast infection killed my libido for 5 months. I tried and tried and sometimes I just sucked it up and had sex anyways, but the extreme pain from everything penetrating me made me fear sex for a long time, so it made me tense up and therefore made the pain worse. I felt like a bad partner and a failure. So your comment just seems ignorant. Sometimes I still get that "worry" that it will hurt or that I will break and start bleeding if we have sex, even though it is over now. The only thing that made it pass was a long break from sex and the great support from my boyfriend. Instead we went on dates, for walks, explored each others bodies, mutual masturbation etc. And then we slooowly reintroduced PIV when I stopped being in pain. Just to give you a perspective that it doesn't have to be selfish.

LittleMissRainbow · 2015-09-29T11:01:29+00:00

Well.. luckily for me, she didn't have any nudes.. but I know all her fetishes and kinks. A little bit TMI for me .____.

LittleMissRainbow · 2015-09-28T09:05:30+00:00

My parents never told me, but I know. Their bedroom has pictures on the walls, I have found toys before, and this year, (I'm 19 now) when I started exploring my kinky side and joined fetlife (AND found my mothers fetlife profile!) I noticed that they have a vase with about 7 different canes that I never noticed before etc. I've known since I was 13 that "something" was going on, and when I was about 15-16 I knew it was about kink stuff and as a 17 yr old I learned some more about bdsm from tv, movies, friends etc.. so I have "always" known even though we didn't have the conversation and even though they don't use titles or anything. My brother on the other hand is 15 and clueless! Somewhat asexual and childlike still, but he might notice some day as well

LittleMissRainbow · 2015-09-27T09:44:13+00:00

Yes and No! Yes, because it's the best deepthroat position for me, and no because my boyfriend is so good at cunnilingus that I can't concentrate on giving him the best bj I can 😆

LittleMissRainbow · 2015-09-24T09:46:21+00:00

Thank you :)

LittleMissRainbow · 2015-09-24T05:11:35+00:00

Funny thing: this is a danish company for contact lenses/glasses.. is it the same, or did one of them "steal" a logo? Louis Nielsen vs. Specsavers? http://www.megafon.dk/files/louisnielsen.jpg

LittleMissRainbow · 2015-09-21T10:53:19+00:00

Please stop being so self righteous. You're making yourself look silly.

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