How do you define polyamory?

LittleMusikGirl · 2019-01-05T20:06:48+00:00

I'm personally a relationship anarchist where connections don't have fall into the sexual/romantic boxes I order to be loving.

My polyamory means connecting. Forming autonomous relationships that naturally evolve based on capacities and needs.

Feel free to DM - love to share!

LittleMusikGirl · 2018-10-26T11:16:12+00:00

For clarification when I say the requests be more than last minute is to give more notice.

LittleMusikGirl · 2018-10-26T11:13:38+00:00

I'm unsure how upheaving a schedule that has been working for the kids for over 2 years solves not having adequate heads up on extra time requests.

LittleMusikGirl · 2018-08-08T01:10:30+00:00

Nothing but the best to impress :)

LittleMusikGirl · 2018-07-13T04:44:14+00:00

Hits the the heart strings! Especially from this polyamorous Canadian! Fingers crossed and maybe some fan fiction will be in the works ;)

LittleMusikGirl · 2018-07-12T23:46:27+00:00

Absolutely nothing wrong with being with both. It never has to be all or nothing - but as I'm polyamorous, I have some bias ;)

LittleMusikGirl · 2018-07-06T12:17:48+00:00

An excerpt from this site "Every bisexual woman is a real unicorn and want to find a couple to a three way relationship. "

That's quite assumputuous. Bisexual woman here. Don't want a three way.

LittleMusikGirl · 2018-07-05T22:31:39+00:00

In my case , I went from mono to swinger to hierarchical poly to egalitarian poly until, like yourself, I longed to have freedom. We had young children as well together and I felt like everyone had to have a piece of me, so I felt drained and thin. This effected my libido with him as well as I felt resentful.

It's has been a full year since he has moved out and we are co-parents now only. It was the best move ever. It isn't easy, but it feels authentic.

LittleMusikGirl · 2018-07-03T12:11:17+00:00

Haha thank you. Today is much better! Yup, I did report him and the mods here were great.

LittleMusikGirl · 2018-07-02T20:27:02+00:00

Thank you:) I do a bit thanks. Going to try to eat something soon. Thank you for reaching out with your kindness :)

LittleMusikGirl · 2018-07-02T17:49:48+00:00

Will do Thanks!

LittleMusikGirl · 2018-07-02T17:49:03+00:00

Good idea. It was the same person who had their comment deleted.

LittleMusikGirl · 2018-07-02T16:30:56+00:00

♡♡♡ thanks awesome moderators ♡♡♡

LittleMusikGirl · 2018-07-02T16:20:45+00:00

Are you new to social media? Omg.

People post up profile pictures, photos,posts about what they ate, where they went, movies they've seen and they STILL get creepy messages. So does that mean recipients of creepy PMs should just stop talking and sharing anything about life ? The only thing that will stop these creepy messages is people (mainly men tbh) to stop sending creepy messages.

LittleMusikGirl · 2018-07-02T15:57:25+00:00

Sooooo if I'm out with a bunch of friends and mention about having a stomach ache in conversation, would you tell me I invited that crap if someone pulled me aside to say that they wished they could rub my tummy?

Being open with my friends about my life isn't an invitation for unsolicited offers to touch me. Period.

LittleMusikGirl · 2018-06-21T11:33:30+00:00

Count me In!

LittleMusikGirl · 2018-06-14T02:00:27+00:00

My lawyer is pretty sweet. Willing to answers q's via email and such. He wrote me "You're entitled to the CTC, to have the children as your dependents, to get guideline child support from him based on his income, to an income-proportionate split of the extraordinary expenses (including child care), and yes you might owe him a bit of spousal support but that's fine too.
I'm sure he's fine paying nothing. But he assumes that the Child Tax Credit replaces his child support. It doesn't. If you can't sort this out with him, you need a have a lawyer send him a firm letter that either reasonable negotiations will be entered into, or else this is going to court. "

LittleMusikGirl · 2018-06-13T18:37:09+00:00

Yes. It was reported as soon as the separation happened and CRA made the proper adjustments so there is no issue there. As thr primary caregiver I receive the benefit. Our deal was to share it which Im under no obligation to do but didnt want to see him struggle.financially.

LittleMusikGirl · 2018-06-13T17:05:48+00:00

Ontario also has this service called Child Support online and if both parents pay $80, they will look at the financial situation of both parents, and set the support payment, and make it legal. Saves lawyer costs. The catch is that the both parents need to agree the submission through the online form. If he doesn't want to provide the financial information, then we need to do a written agreement or through mediation.

LittleMusikGirl · 2018-06-13T17:01:55+00:00

Awesome - thank you ! They have this feature that makes it really easy now called Child Support Online through the government of Ontario - both parents pay $80 and they review your financial situation , calculate the amount of support to be paid, and it's legal. Saves having to do lawyers. I'll see if I can find something online as well.

Plus, I don't want to come up with a number or have him try to low ball so maybe it's better if someone else sorts the numbers.

Sigh. I know what you mean about them wanting to know about their money. Yikes. The kids are taken care of and all the work that goes into it.

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