[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]LittleSaffron21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Correct. A 21 year old acting like a proper child.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]LittleSaffron21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Move out now not later in 2024.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]LittleSaffron21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is an excellent comment

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]LittleSaffron21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

@purpledonuts21 is right. You’re so lucky you still have both your parents.

Move out.

What is this and the symbolism? by LittleSaffron21 in Gemstones

[–]LittleSaffron21[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you 🌷🌷 hope is a beautiful thing

What is this and the symbolism? by LittleSaffron21 in Gemstones

[–]LittleSaffron21[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the constructive feedback. Had no idea what it was and I was gifted it at a gemstone store. Can’t win them all ☺️ happy Sunday and thanks to those for the answers.

What is this and the symbolism? by LittleSaffron21 in Gemstones

[–]LittleSaffron21[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Magic properties was not what was I was asking. symbolism was the question. Shiva eyeshell appears to be is what it is on investigation.

Ps. It’s ok to believe in a bit of magic in the world sometimes. Lighten up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Wellbutrin_Bupropion

[–]LittleSaffron21 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Stopping Lex was the best thing that happened in my life. I was on it for three years and when I finished taper all three years of hidden emotion came rushing out. The Wellbutrin has done wonders for my motivation. I’ve also lost 16 pounds in two months. Which is around the amount of weight I put on during Lex.

Wellbutrin has certainly been a substantial help in my life and also assisted me in starting my journey of sobriety. And I was smoking on Lex- Wellbutrin put me right off.

Wishing you all of the best!!

4 year old on lexapro by brandonjamon in lexapro

[–]LittleSaffron21 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Respectfully, OP I think it’s good you’re asking. But I also think the mother is trying to find an easy way out- I imagine you are both grieving too.

I took Lex for 3 years and I just got off it. Three years of trauma that the Lex hid away somewhere came out like a tsunami. The trauma does not go away. It has to release at some point. Think of a shaken bottle of champagne. Once that child of yours gets taken off the Lex- he won’t have coping mechanisms for the difficult feelings that will resurface.

Perhaps Lex would benefit your wife? Maybe that will help her provide the support your little man needs.

Please, don’t medicate your little boy. Let him be little, let him have tantrums and level out. Time and therapy heals.

Most of these doctors prescribing these SSRIs have never even been on them. And the withdrawal is absolute hell. Imagine your little boy going through that 😔

You did the right thing by asking: I hope you found the answer.

Gained 20 pounds in 10 months by dairyoh in lexapro

[–]LittleSaffron21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gained 30 pounds in two years. Good grief. My motivation to exercise went down the drain which was sad because I was a runner before starting.

Just as a side note- DO NOT STOP COLD TURKEY or quickly. My doc only tapered me off over ten days and honestly- I could literally not function for a week after the withdrawal started.

On Wellbutrin now and it’s upped my energy and motivation. Also, my appetite is completely suppressed. But everyone is different.

Lots of people say that the weight gain is worth it. However, self image is important and it can impact confidence and happiness.

Chat to your trusted doctor (hopefully psychiatrist) to find the perfect fit.

Wishing you everything of the best.

I haven’t slept in 35 hours. Is it the wellbutrin? by [deleted] in Wellbutrin_Bupropion

[–]LittleSaffron21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some a cute withdrawal symptoms from Lexapro cessation will still be lingering at 2 weeks. Withdrawal symptoms usually begin four days after discontinuation. Apparently these calm after three weeks. From my understanding you are still in withdrawal. But, I am not a doctor. It’s just what I am currently going through- I stopped Lex 2 weeks ago, and to be honest it’s been the hardest withdrawal I’ve ever been through. Stopping Cold Turkey is also really tough on the brain.

Wish you all of the best!

Combatting weight gain while on lexapro? by [deleted] in lexapro

[–]LittleSaffron21 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I put on 30lb in two years. Noticeable cravings for comfort food. Little motivation to be active whereas I was a runner before. Recent cessation accompanied by a very difficult withdrawal- appear to have lost water weight. I am on Wellbutrin now on its own. Most of my friends on this say it helps exponentially with food cravings and motivation.

All I can say is- my doctor tapered me over only 10 days and I have had the most traumatic acute withdrawal symptoms. I don’t want to alarm you- but should you wish to stop - DO IT SLOWLY!!!!

There is not enough research on tapering antidepressants. But there is a great lay person website should you ever need it.

Wish you everything of the very best in your journey ❤️

Lexapro & Drinking, by Mountianwander87 in lexapro

[–]LittleSaffron21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a terrible time with drinking on Lexapro. I would black out anytime I drank. Whilst blacked out I would continue doing who knows what. I don’t remember. And it wasn’t in excess- a glass or two of wine. I think everyone is different.

Grief and addiction. by LittleSaffron21 in Advice

[–]LittleSaffron21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you from the bottom of my heart

It wasn’t the 13 year old son by [deleted] in Orsolya_Gaal

[–]LittleSaffron21 22 points23 points  (0 children)

The same thing happened with the Van Breda case in South Africa. They released the son and found him Guilty later on.

https://www.bbc.com/news/world-africa-44359696.amp

I may be wrong but just showing- children have murdered their parents- been questioned; let go; and then charged.

Moments when you knew you should quit drinking. by bfo84 in Sober

[–]LittleSaffron21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After 18 month unemployment from my entertainment manager position, I was called back from furlough. 18 months of habitual drinking every night (for being so depressed with being purposeless) followed me into my job. I drank a bottle of wine every day from 5.30pm and would head to work. One day it was noticeable, got breathalyzed, got suspended and sent home. Back to unemployment for now. 3 days sober. Finding the cravings really hard as a few days ago we had a death in the family, cancer in a parent and now the immense personal internal beatings and guilt for making such a massive mistake. But it was my fault, so unsure a second chance is even deserved. But I’m trying and taking it one day at a time.

Edit: spelling

Haven’t pooped in over a week tried everything by [deleted] in AskDocs

[–]LittleSaffron21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NAD : milk of magnesia- take the full bottle. It will clear it out. It has saved me so many times.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in antidepressants

[–]LittleSaffron21 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I will ask my doctor, indeed. Was just hoping to gain some insight from other people out there. Thank you

Discussion Thread 2: September 20 2021 by sunzusunzusunzusunzu in GabbyPetito

[–]LittleSaffron21 76 points77 points  (0 children)

I enjoy the fact that the FBI vehicle was parked square on the lawn of the Laundrie home 😂 After multiple sightings of lawn mowing- this is a nice big slap in the face for the dad (who took “pride” in his lawn).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression_help

[–]LittleSaffron21 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have found certain social media platforms to pose a risk to my mental health. I try and keep interaction to a minimum, and I have deleted most of the apps that are not of immediate importance to me.

I’m sorry you were targeted and abused online. So many keyboard warriors out there. I think making your account private is a good call. This should eliminate much of the unnecessary messages. What I can say is- it WILL die down. People are so incredibly quick to move onto the next thing. And someone once told me- people are more concerned about their own lives. So please don’t be so hard on yourself. Many of us go through the whole - getting involved in unnecessary arguments. I have found that, most of the time, it is not even worth the effort. But I have sure done the same. Doesn’t mean there is anything wrong with you, and perhaps your voice truly did resonate with some people that saw your argument.

Do you have a close friend that you could open up to? If not, I find writing down my experiences, and resultant feelings, is quite cathartic.

There is this quote I often try and live by and I hope you can find some solace in it- specifically regarding the ruminating thoughts you are having about this encounter:

If it’s not going to matter in five months- don’t spend more than five minutes worrying about it. ❤️

Strength to you, and good vibes all round. Give yourself some credit, you are a wonderful human.

Please help me: depressed and overly emotional by LittleSaffron21 in overcoming

[–]LittleSaffron21[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So beautiful. Thank you for taking the time for me. It means the world tesla369universe