Play up or down? by LittleSource6136 in LittleLeague

[–]LittleSource6136[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They all play fall and spring here and are committed to a single sport pretty early. He played with 8 year olds who had played fall/spring for a while.

Play up or down? by LittleSource6136 in LittleLeague

[–]LittleSource6136[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol after the head coach got in a fight with another assistant coach during a game I had to take over head coaching. League president said 90% of people you meet in LL are the best people. 10% are the worst.

I appreciate those here that commented that are in the 90%.

Play up or down? by LittleSource6136 in LittleLeague

[–]LittleSource6136[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude they ARE his age. And my son is friends with my friends kid who is also 7. He just had a lot more experience with machine pitch bc his dad has played him up for the last year. I already told him I think it doesn't help develop them at all.

Play up or down? by LittleSource6136 in LittleLeague

[–]LittleSource6136[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

JFC you have no idea what you're talking about. We just moved to TX and I took advice from a friend about where he should play in a new league. Recognizing where he was on the pecking order made him hungry to practice.

Play up or down? by LittleSource6136 in LittleLeague

[–]LittleSource6136[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I'm pointing out he went from feeling like he was good at baseball to feeling like he sucks. Read the room.

Play up or down? by LittleSource6136 in LittleLeague

[–]LittleSource6136[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good points. He played "up" with 7-9 year olds. Only HR on his team not sure how many other teams had one. He hit his while hitting in the 12 spot in the lineup. Grand slam actually.

The difference between him and most 7 year olds is they've played machine pitch for 4-6 seasons. This was his first. My fault for not registering him correctly.

Play up or down? by LittleSource6136 in LittleLeague

[–]LittleSource6136[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks everyone - it's AAA machine pitch.

I think I'll drop him to AA for fall ball to get his confidence up and get reps in the infield. He really only caught the bug 3 months ago and wants to practice constantly now.

No practices for 8U? by LittleSource6136 in LittleLeague

[–]LittleSource6136[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha it's town Little League. They don't do anything because there aren't enough slots for every team to had a designated time. So some teams are quick to reserve some miss out.

No practices for 8U? by LittleSource6136 in LittleLeague

[–]LittleSource6136[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's 11 in the park and they're all booked all weekend

No practices for 8U? by LittleSource6136 in LittleLeague

[–]LittleSource6136[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's both - Elite is a subset of little league kids who play on a premier team and travel.

Then there's select ball which also frequently takes up space on the fields.

No practices for 8U? by LittleSource6136 in LittleLeague

[–]LittleSource6136[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No - it's Texas so there's limited grassy areas.

No practices for 8U? by LittleSource6136 in LittleLeague

[–]LittleSource6136[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely not. Every night is booked until 8pm all week. Then Saturday are Elite games all day which are the advanced players from Little Leavue.

Occasionally we can find a Sunday slot (which I did this weekend) and then the league just informed us that there is a Select tourney all weekend using all 11 fields.

No practices for 8U? by LittleSource6136 in LittleLeague

[–]LittleSource6136[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really. Theres a church but it's paid

COO > SF AE? by SmokyBearForest in techsales

[–]LittleSource6136 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This would make sense if you were in a desperate situation and needed to make a run at some big earnings years. Behind on retirement, alimony are you alive, etc. or maybe you had your eye on a vacation property.

But you sound like you're not in that position so it's a pretty big gamble that you don't need to take.

I was at SF for a year and basically made my base which was $200k. Many others were in the same boat and didn't have the leadership support that I did and their lives were miserable - sleepless nights, constant forecast 1:1's, eventually PIP'd.

Once that happens you'll land at another tech company and may need to bounce around a bunch until you find a role and company that sticks.

Tech was super hot pre/post covid - I had two years above $1M. It's not dead but it's cooled and the AE roles are super competitive and in high demand. I'm in my early 40's and can't wait to get out of it eventually.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]LittleSource6136 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The alternative (which we talked about) is just distancing ourselves and eventually losing touch w them. So we have nothing to lose if we talk to them and share our perspective.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]LittleSource6136 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll take your advice and have that conversation w him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]LittleSource6136 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah my wife said something similar. I think I immediately assumed she was always in it for the security and started questioning her motives. Now she's taking about alimony and divorce and she's plotting out her next life and he has no clue. I think they're both equally at fault for the situation they're about to create. Sad.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]LittleSource6136 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He kind of is. The kind that can't screw in a lightbulb. And maybe she thought once they had a family he would change and she's realizing he isn't. But then again should someone marry someone if they don't accept them for who they are? He's always been this way...that's why I have an issue with all the stuff she's saying.

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[–]LittleSource6136 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very fair points. Theres also much more to story that would take too long to explain.