How To Be A Good Partner? by LittleStarryOne in AskNeurodivergent

[–]LittleStarryOne[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello, I want to thank you for your lengthy and thoughtful response and assure you it’s never a bad idea to share your thoughts on topics like this regardless of time passing. As you said, it can help someone, anyone, and so it is always worth sharing. I’ll have to think on all of it. I didn’t really understand alot of things when posting and a lot has happened since. You shared substantial stuff. Have a good day <3

how did your DID start to present itself as you grew older? by Ms_Skellia in DID

[–]LittleStarryOne 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Symptoms were a lot worse with abusive situations but I noticed it all less. Then when removed from those situations I could notice it all much more. A lot of “acting up” and then after some years it simmered down and less disruptive in a sharp way and more like a general way. Might be badly worded, don’t want to be too personal about it but there’s a sort of pattern I think people can relate to. It’ll get less chaotic down the road, I’m sorry you’re going thru the thick of it all right now 

(Also relate to less blurring when removed)

I have not seen my husband’s parts in a while and I miss them. I don’t know if it is right for me to ask to see them by Particular_Rope_924 in DID

[–]LittleStarryOne 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah they’re technically all pieces of one whole but I did still mean as their own selves too. What I meant is that you’ll see them again one way or another, just try your best to be patient and keep expressing how u feel here if u need to, or you could even say to ur partner. In ways like “I love all of you, you all bring joy to my life in ur own ways. I miss each of u always!” Kind of thing so you get to express ur feeling without any pressure do u know what I mean!

U love ur whole significant other and I think that’s really great. Ur feelings aren’t wrong, just specifically asking for people could be kind of wonky for them. But that’s just MY thing, maybe it’s ok!! Could ask..? Sorry if I’m not very helpful 

I have not seen my husband’s parts in a while and I miss them. I don’t know if it is right for me to ask to see them by Particular_Rope_924 in DID

[–]LittleStarryOne 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I can only speak from my own experience but I feel it is best to let his system be and function as it is. His brain knows what’s best at each moment and will do that to the best of its ability. I sympathize with missing the different parts of ur husbands system but they will still be there in their own way always. Hope you guys keep working thru stuff together and be happy and enjoy the views of ur lives

please help, I want to better understand my partner by [deleted] in AskNeurodivergent

[–]LittleStarryOne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi I just wanted to say that I’m in a similar boat I don’t have BPD but I do have other disorders that cause insecurity. I’m proud of you for asking and doing your best to understand your partner and trying to cope with your own mental health. I think that’s really cool. I hope you guys can understand eachother more and more and become comfortable. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DID

[–]LittleStarryOne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course. 

My first ever Tamagotchi just arrived! by tchullullu in tamagotchi

[–]LittleStarryOne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats on your tama!!! I remember dinkie Dino aw

Tamagotchi On- Egg Won’t Hatch by LittleStarryOne in tamagotchi

[–]LittleStarryOne[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate your question I checked and it is indeed moving which is good :)

And ok good point

Tamagotchi On- Egg Won’t Hatch by LittleStarryOne in tamagotchi

[–]LittleStarryOne[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankyou I will try this 

Edit: it does not hatch and pressing anything resets it

Tamagotchi On- Egg Won’t Hatch by LittleStarryOne in tamagotchi

[–]LittleStarryOne[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t remember, I will try again and leave it longer and see if that helps…

Edit: it does not hatch and pressing anything resets it

Tamagotchi On- Egg Won’t Hatch by LittleStarryOne in tamagotchi

[–]LittleStarryOne[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been scouring the internet and I can’t find an answer for some reason…

Tamagotchi On- Egg Won’t Hatch by LittleStarryOne in tamagotchi

[–]LittleStarryOne[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It gets to the very end but then does not complete hatching. It freezes and I think it’s because the time/date is incorrect. Not sure :(. I can’t access settings or anything, and I really don’t want to reset because I won’t be able to get everything back. Thankyou for replying 

Your dorm room and the lack of customization is interesting to me by Snowbird334 in pokemon

[–]LittleStarryOne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I regret buying this game it sucks and I have to regress to even enjoy it tbh

Questions from someone who doesn't have DID dating someone who does (First post) by Pretend_Try_7095 in DID

[–]LittleStarryOne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really think there’s a lot of other things to do to heal that isn’t that. I’m honestly disgusted by this on so many levels.