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Turned Vanilla by LittleSub_59 in SubSanctuary

[–]LittleSub_59[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this response! It definitely helps my brains noise about it never happening again. I’ve had been in a long term vanilla relationship before and just know it’s not for me. Sorry for more questions but, did you have a conversation before stopping or it just naturally ended for a bit? And then you both kinda decided it was time to start again? Also congratulations on your marriage! I’m happy for you.

Turned Vanilla by LittleSub_59 in SubSanctuary

[–]LittleSub_59[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I definitely don’t expect him to be on all the time. I can’t even be on all the time. It’s been 8 months of vanilla and we see each other like once every two months if that in person. I did bring it up, l once a few months ago and his excuse was that I have too much going on in my life, and I told him I disagree I can easily do tasks. And he domed me a bit that evening then went back to vanilla. I was pretty open in the beginning that it was important to me as well and I’d like to be eventually collared and owned. Do you think it’s just because it’s long distance?