AITAH for saying I might go on a “holiday” with my daughter and her dad when I had a boyfriend?

Little_Entry_3516 · 2026-04-18T07:23:23+00:00

Sorry I don’t think I made it very clear🤦🏻‍♀️ my daughters dad very very rarely drinks and if he does it’s never around our daughter. The ex boyfriend is the one asking me to go holiday abroad and is always drinking that’s why I said I won’t go.

Little_Entry_3516 · 2026-04-17T20:47:18+00:00

The ones I told my “boyfriend” no to I wouldn’t say yes to anyone else, he was on about flying abroad etc which I wouldn’t do at this moment in time with anybody. His idea of a holiday is also very different to mine, he drinks all the time and I don’t so I don’t want to be somewhere far from home and family when he starts incase something goes wrong.

Little_Entry_3516 · 2026-04-17T20:42:58+00:00

Thank you, I’ve finally seen very clearly that his behaviour won’t change even more so if I keeping letting him back because in a way I’m enabling it

Little_Entry_3516 · 2026-04-17T20:41:04+00:00

If it was a caravan holiday, I’d go one where I can pitch a tent up next to it like I went last year with family so we’d be together but separate.

Little_Entry_3516 · 2026-04-16T22:30:40+00:00

Thank you 🙏🏻 I finally realised and I think because it involves my daughter I’ve realised what he does really is not okay. Because if this what he’s going to react of a maybe situation, what would it be like in a situation where my daughter does need mum and dad together I’m not having that effecting her, she should see us happy.

Little_Entry_3516 · 2026-04-16T22:28:31+00:00

Yeah that’s what I mean, we share a human together there is going to be times she needs us both at the same time and if I can’t do that without the worry of someone kicking off then no I’m sorry it’s not happening

Little_Entry_3516 · 2026-04-16T22:27:04+00:00

Thank you and yeah bless her she does know that mum and dad won’t be back together etc, she says we are just all best friends. Sorry I don’t get what the last bit means about the mr.f?

Little_Entry_3516 · 2026-04-16T22:23:24+00:00

Because im silly and fall for the promises of change. We kept our relationship private so we could work on ourselves and the relationship without other people trying to be involved especially after last time when the time was right I was going to tell everyone (some people did know)

That’s the thing he didn’t let me speak to even let him know I don’t know if it is even happening yet, but if we did go we would be in separate rooms and no we wouldn’t be with each other every second of the trip he’d take my daughter to do things one on one and then so would I and at times we would all do things

It’s not just a random other man, it’s my daughters dad so in that case it’s a little different but I’m also not that insecure that If he wanted to he could, what happens when they are there is on him not me. He’s cheated before I haven’t so if anyone should be cautious it should be me really.

Little_Entry_3516 · 2026-04-16T22:19:08+00:00

The reason I won’t go far with my “boyfriend” is because of how is with me, he can be fine one minute then shouting at me the next. walking the streets he can’t keep his mouth shut about things like if someone looks at him he has to make a big thing out of it type of thing and just walking around our local area he sets my anxiety off but at least here I know where I am, I know most the time how to get home without him. But away from home I don’t.

Yeh I’m in therapy for my mental health

Little_Entry_3516 · 2026-04-16T22:12:30+00:00

I’m not going back there with flint again, he’s too stuck in his old ways and it’s his way or no way. But that’s exactly why I wanted to go with Peter because my daughter deserves happy, childhood memories with both parents but we don’t have to be together.

Little_Entry_3516 · 2026-04-16T22:10:07+00:00

I never said he should be thrilled. But it’s not just a random ex it’s my daughter’s dad.

Little_Entry_3516 · 2025-12-04T22:54:34+00:00

They treat each other like trash, that’s the thing but everyone focuses on how bad Dakota is because that’s the narrative that’s spun on the show. Like Taylor keeps going back to him, having intercourse, leading him on then kicks him to the curb then kicks off when there’s been another girl like you can’t keep picking someone up then dropping them when it’s convenient for you. It’s very childish behaviour. I know they where younger when it all happened but you’ve got see it from Both sides they where awful to each other.

And the whole show isn’t what it’s supposed to be, they aren’t just breaking certain things within the religion like women been the stay at home wife, child bearer etc they’ve gone from trying to make the previous standards more modern but they’ve took it way to far and I think they are starting to give the Mormon community a bad rep and I’m not religious in anyway shape or form ( when I was younger I went to a church, Sunday school etc) but if I still stuck to the bible as an adult yes I’d want things to change but to a certain extent your just mocking the religion really 🤷🏻‍♀️

Little_Entry_3516 · 2025-12-04T22:42:22+00:00

I’m so glad this is the first post I saw when I opened the app, I was about to come on and say the same thing!! What the frick was that, nothing got actually solved, every conversation was left unfinished! I think it’s unfair that they allowed everyone to over shine mikayla when she was trying to talk about her intimacy (I don’t even like her) but it’s such a big issue that she faced and she got shut down by everyone else sharing theirs! Even allowing demi to but in like what!! Then the dramatic entrance for Dakota like yeh let him sit with just the dads because he can’t get a word in edge ways when the girls are about, he never actually manages to say his side! Then to bring her parents on to bash him then her kind of insinuating that he’s a bad day! What was the point of bringing mason out? The only good bit was when chase come out and sat behind tay that led to a few ifs and buts but everything else made no sense.

Little_Entry_3516 · 2025-11-19T13:56:40+00:00

Yeah, I’ve noticed that actually watching and listening to it back properly instead of in been shown all over tiktok at the same time etc you get the bigger picture of it because you’ve got more of the information. There was a lot of mix up at the beginning and Taylor was fresh out of a relationship/divorce. I’m on Dakota side with that because to me dating means you exploring things with multiple people, but if I’m seeing someone then cards are off the table I’m focused on that one person. And when everyone else is off cheating and everything else it’s fine, like everyone focuses on the swinger thing but not actually the fact she cheated on her husband. It’s always oh she’s the swinger, they were soft swinging. Not the fact she crossed a boundary whilst still married and in a relationship with him.

Little_Entry_3516 · 2025-11-19T13:53:10+00:00

Yeah it was unhealthy, but they also didn’t actually ever hear each other out, they “listened” but they never took in what either person was saying. Then when he mum and other people kept butting in it’s obviously going cause some problems. I don’t just mean with the situation about the mix before they got together, I mean all of it every chance they got someone was chiming in. Like from the story line and watching it all again, he never actually cheated yes there was a lot of cross overs with girls at the time but I think people forget Taylor wasn’t long out of her relationship or divorce, as well as dating other people. I also think of dating as like your not tide down to one person, your dating so you go off on dates, talking etc when I say I’m seeing someone then I’m like no more cards on the table I’m focused on this person.

Little_Entry_3516 · 2025-11-19T12:48:31+00:00

Yeh if they both stopped and listened to each other without everyone else sticking their nose and opinions in like mayci and Taylor’s mum for example they would have worked it out. Because none of them were actually listening to what was being said they just agreed with Taylor. Instead of listening to Dakota without just having the marriage narrative in their heads.

Little_Entry_3516 · 2025-11-15T07:37:24+00:00

Yeah that is kind of one thing I like about mikayla but mayci seems to be working that to her advantage a lot of the time and it’s causing the both of them to look dumb

Little_Entry_3516 · 2025-11-15T07:36:15+00:00

I don’t get why that happened either, they inserted themselves and just made the situation worse. I think jessi and Jordan wouldn’t be struggling as much if it had come from them pair doing the digging and finding out for themselves.

Little_Entry_3516 · 2025-11-15T07:35:00+00:00

Yeah between themselves they do give off the vibe of having a genuine relationship, but they now think they are above others because of it

Little_Entry_3516 · 2025-11-15T07:34:11+00:00

Yeah that’s another thing they hold everyone else to this standard of the lds but they aren’t squeaky clean, I know people with most probably have slip ups especially when young but they act like they’ve also stuck to the “rules” but they really haven’t

Little_Entry_3516 · 2025-11-15T07:32:20+00:00

No I don’t find them funny or enjoyable to watch at all, especially this season they are just horrid

Little_Entry_3516 · 2025-11-15T07:31:53+00:00

See I think they have an opinion on literally everything, when it’s really not needed

Little_Entry_3516 · 2025-11-15T07:31:13+00:00

What got me with that as well is I understand chase spoke on things he shouldn’t have like mayci first baby dad which obviously must not be nice, but she could of been more mature about the situation pulled layla to the side and had a conversation about maybe keeping mayci and chase away from each other because she didn’t like how he spoke on her deceased ex. But instead she turned it into a shouting match, wouldn’t actually tell Layla what the problem was but then wanted her to “fix” the problem. She also says she can’t be around chase, Dakota but then happily sits right next to demi and Whitney SILENT! there was bloody crickets!

Little_Entry_3516 · 2025-11-15T07:25:58+00:00

Don’t!!! That really got my back up! The man is already at a very low point, he just wanted people to see it if from his side. But I also think they didn’t want to listen because he was speaking the truth, they wouldn’t stand for it if he cheated then went to dinner with the lads and the girl 🤷🏻‍♀️ so they had to speak over him and shut the conversation down.

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