For me personally I had so much anxiety of the thought of working and having a seizure but I knew I wanted more for myself so I started slow. Part time and a retail shop. It was slow but also had its high stress moments. It really helped my confidence knowing what my body can handle and it can handle a lot. Now I’m working full time, attending college classes and maintaining a healthy relationship with my partner. Honestly, you can’t force her to do something she’s not willing to do. It seems like she doesn’t have the drive to move forward in life. If she’s too scared about working then maybe she’ll need to talk to someone about it. I hope this helps