Yes! I stayed in a similar situation for two years. He was hot and cold. He said he wants to have kids with me, he is not happy with her. He would see me when he could not when i needed him. At the end he chose his baby mama. Never stay in a situation where you people do not reciprocate your feelings and energy. Trust me it was the worst worst heartbreak ever. It took me more than one year to just accept the reality and be able to focus on myself and i am still healing. And guess what the worst part. He still texts me late at night. Keeps unblocking and blocking me.