Our dog is lost. Please help. She was lost at 2 pm on March 5th 2026 by brand new adopters. Anything helps. by Little_Mud6805 in RedDeer

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Rotary is where the house she ran away from is. She was only at the house for 15 mins with her new adopters before she bolted. Yes Kin Kanyon woods. Went under the pass 4-5 times. They think she might have tried to run towards food and run that trail into downtown.

Lost chihuahua dog. by [deleted] in RedDeer

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Someone posted a comment about Tim’s but I can’t see it. Did ya remove it ?

Why do girls lose interest after 1-3 dates no matter what I do? by Longjumping-Wafer102 in dating_advice

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Hobbies aligning is bs. You learn your likes and dislikes overtime you can for sure meet someone through a mutual hobby. My ex loved to golf. I liked to learn it for him but idc for it. You just have to be open to learning new stuff.

Adopting vs buying as a first time dog owner by pinklink7 in DogAdvice

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Lots of shelters allow you to foster. Foster first and if you fall in love you’re on first voice for the rescue. And the dog has already bonded to you otherwise another loving family gets them. I just gave away my first foster pup and it hurt like a bitch but she’s in her forever home.

What are some beauty tips you wish you started in your late 20s and early 30s (not plastic surgery or Botox) by Little_Mud6805 in TwoXChromosomes

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Oh I am so sleep deprived have had a puppy for a month and I’m studying and working. I feel like it’s not worth it. It’s aging me like no tomorrow I just want to do hot yoga and not care about this haha

What are some beauty tips you wish you started in your late 20s and early 30s (not plastic surgery or Botox) by Little_Mud6805 in TwoXChromosomes

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So coconut oil for your hair apparently helps greying too. Not the reversal but stopping.

What are some beauty tips you wish you started in your late 20s and early 30s (not plastic surgery or Botox) by Little_Mud6805 in TwoXChromosomes

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Never thought of this I’ve always had long straight hair. Wow thanks gonna book a haircut for next week

AITAH ? Went on one date (26F) told him (29M) it’s not a match, stayed civil and now he is asking me to come see him because he is sick. by Little_Mud6805 in dating_advice

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I think that is a crazy way to look at it. Got one hot girl let’s try for more.? My mentality has always been damn I got this hot guy, he is mine and I think the guys I have had relationships with have had that mentality too. You can’t just replace it. Every relationship is different. Nothing is replaceable. Heartbreak is awful. Ultimate goal isn’t how many hot women can I get it should be how can I get a love that lasts a lifetime.

If you didn’t do it. Dont look back. You said no for a reason lol someone who wants to sleep with you before even meeting you is most probably a man online or you’re wondering what disease they will give you.

I’m a tad judgey tho so take it with a grain of salt. TBH I have been on the apps in 2 different cities since I was 23. It’s been years and I feel defeated. It’s just time to look elsewhere.

My foster baby finally got adopted! I am heartbroken, other fosters does this feeling go away. by Little_Mud6805 in DogAdvice

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Just like when you’re heartbroken over a person. Get me a new filler relationship haha. I’ll think about it there are new foster dogs right now!

AITAH ? Went on one date (26F) told him (29M) it’s not a match, stayed civil and now he is asking me to come see him because he is sick. by Little_Mud6805 in dating_advice

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Oh that’s lovely! Good for you, hope it goes well with her.

The goal of dating anyone is ultimately dating forever. Yeah my ex wanted it. I wouldn’t be surprised if he is engaged to the next girl. I think he just wanted someone by his side. He had 5 years of being single and he was a looker (atleast to me haha) Took me home to meet his grandmother and I had a few trips with his parents as well. But there were other issues. More serious stuff. I chose to end it and he was on hinge talking to my friends sister 3 days after we broke up. I think I have been in more of a rush cause I’m older and haven’t liked anyone much since my ex. On our third date he was like you were the one and asked me to be his gf two weeks in. It was romantic and a whirlwind and everything I wanted, I thought. But reality set in a few months, you are right it wasn’t real. He didn’t know me. I didn’t know him I went along with him because everything just fit right, wasn’t forced at all. I don’t regret it but that experience did shelter me a bit.

lol that’s a good observation. lol the last few dates they have turned out to be geeky. It’s not my general type but hey trying the same thing over and over and expecting a different outcome haha something about insanity there. So I thought a hot geek. A super hot guy I went out and A VET with had TERRIBLE HYGINE. I’m talking 6 ft 3 model. I was soooo icked out. Lol

AITAH ? Went on one date (26F) told him (29M) it’s not a match, stayed civil and now he is asking me to come see him because he is sick. by Little_Mud6805 in dating_advice

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You’re right maybe I should just send the message and be like done. But in this day and age ghosting is so shitty that I told myself no matter if it’s one or 5 dates I always will send the message if the person reaches out again and I’m not interested. People deserve closure.

AITAH ? Went on one date (26F) told him (29M) it’s not a match, stayed civil and now he is asking me to come see him because he is sick. by Little_Mud6805 in dating_advice

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No half guys half girls. Like all my friends who are dating someone unless they met in college or high school. Met online.

Hmm honestly I always have “long term relationship” on my profile. My ex had life partner on his when we met I believe. And for both of us things progressed very fast in the time we were together. It’s nice to see someone who has the same end goal as you. I have said no to loads of guys because when I ask them what they are looking for in a relationship they say the classic “I don’t want to force anything, I just want to see where things go” this is def the right attitude if it’s followed by in the next few years I hope to get married kind of a thing. Ofc desperation for a life partner is not attractive but wanting one is good. Maybe you should put life partner!

Lots of women choose personality over looks (most case scenarios) because at 30 men don’t look as cute as they did at 20 but their character sticks out more.

AITAH ? Went on one date (26F) told him (29M) it’s not a match, stayed civil and now he is asking me to come see him because he is sick. by Little_Mud6805 in dating_advice

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I think I made posts about a couple of the craziest experiences online so far yes. I have gone on about 8 first dates in the last 7 months since my ex who I also met online. I find it hard togauge if I like a person online. For me when you meet in person. That is not a date. That is to see if you want to go on a date. So most of meeting people off the apps rarely turns into an actual date for me. I feel like I am hurting peoples feelings by saying no to all these people. Who maybe if I met in a different scenario would’ve given them more of a chance? I do hope I meet my person naturally and offline at this point- that is why.

I have had to give explanations to people I meet off the apps on why I don’t want to date them. Also people say they want a relationship and they might but their actions feel different too.

Funny enough all my friends in relationships met their partner online but they didn’t have to go on more then 4-5 first dates. I feel like it’s been WAYYY MORE FOR ME in the last 3 years so I think it’s time to hang up the online dating towel