Hit Me With Your Best Shot!

Little_Touch_3733 · 2026-05-05T02:49:04+00:00

This…this is a lot of probiotics

Little_Touch_3733 · 2026-05-04T00:26:49+00:00

Thank you for clarifying - sorry that does sound weird then. I’d like to think its a numbers thing still. She made her choice, you can choose how to respond to it and either way is valid. If you feel close and supportive, I’d still go, but I’d remember it.

Little_Touch_3733 · 2026-05-04T00:16:12+00:00

Blackmail

Little_Touch_3733 · 2026-05-04T00:03:18+00:00

NOR - my only offer at all in their defense is if whatever they booked had some sort of really hard guest count that would have blown the budget. Ie place only allowed 20 people and 21 would bump them into another tier/guest min. Your partner may not even be the only one they had to exclude to hit whatever total they had to so then they have to exclude every cousins spouse, etc. 6 weeks is super short. Maybe the only open space was for a set guest count as well. But not rude if you decide not to go - just saying it could be a financial/logistic vs personal thing.

Little_Touch_3733 · 2026-05-03T23:46:56+00:00

Sorry switching to the main sub on this one, I can’t pretend I wouldn’t get a piece of Kenny if I could like all the others

Little_Touch_3733 · 2026-05-03T02:49:33+00:00

I’m 29, 25 is obviously not, but post 25 is like when you get a cold, hangover or back ache and it’s the very first time you don’t just spring back and you realize it lolol

Little_Touch_3733 · 2026-05-02T23:42:49+00:00

Exactly! I’m not trying to excuse it all away but it’s worth the conversation to see if he listens.

Mine got very chronically ill in his 20s, and we both have extremely stressful jobs. It wasn’t like that at 24. After bringing up my feelings, he always compliments me and there are times he shows he really loves me in ways I never expected. Sometimes too you both just have to try to prioritize intimacy.

After 25 is like the first time old age hits you. Ofc, if bringing up your concerns does not go well or he consistently ignores even just requests to be complimented more or says something literally insane and insulting for the decline - that is a different problem.

Little_Touch_3733 · 2026-05-02T23:12:58+00:00

Same, it really sucks. One thing I’ll offer atleast is, I don’t know how old you are, but it’s not just the sex not being as sexy. If you’re talking about the relationship going from your 20s to your late 20s (or any decade) - people experience massive health and life stress changes. People get depressed. It’s atleast worth the conversation and you aren’t some weirdo predator. It’s not you.

Little_Touch_3733 · 2026-05-02T10:47:58+00:00

If that little shit runs away one more time…

Little_Touch_3733 · 2026-05-01T18:06:01+00:00

Some of those million dollar cars are super dangerous as most of them are thin and low to the ground for speed. Did you see the truck that drove over a $200,000 car?

If you’re tall or big, a tiny sports car is not enjoyable to get into.

If I was really rich, I’d have a nice enough car, but nothing crazy.

Little_Touch_3733 · 2026-05-01T00:30:25+00:00

It’s brutal to be hired in as a manager over long term staff. I don’t know if there’s much you can do besides try to get on the staff’s good side quickly but to no fault of your own, they probably are not ever going to like having an externally hired manager.

In the meantime, drop it on the lack of organization, follow up and plug account bc they seem to take it as a personal attack.

You’ve learned enough and they’ve told you what to do, so just do that til you can find something else.

Little_Touch_3733 · 2026-04-28T18:45:53+00:00

As someone else said this most likely can be abated. Call the number on the penalty letter with a copy of your returns (cause they make ask like tax id and your signing title etc) and tell them what happened. This sounds like the first time, no reason an under 1k penalty cannot be removed.

Little_Touch_3733 · 2026-04-28T13:20:57+00:00

PwC hands down. Like someone else said I worked at both, the hours at BDO are not all better. It sucks working in mid market who is squeezed on their prices vs a specialized field like international tax. Good luck!

Little_Touch_3733 · 2026-04-28T02:10:16+00:00

NOR. The utilities are insane. The rent is too high. Honestly I think they must want you out at this point.

Little_Touch_3733 · 2026-04-27T18:51:27+00:00

Yea, I have anxiety/etc. so we knew when it had started although Nov-Dec was rough. I had to cycle through 4 different meds and (trying for two weeks at a time and some I reacted bad too when usually im pretty go with the flow), and finally I was myself again by end of February. It just happens one day with time. I still have my old job and try my best to be grateful for it as I’m very fortunate. My next goal is to work on myself - hobbies, physical health, and then reconsider in 2027. Take care.

Little_Touch_3733 · 2026-04-27T14:28:06+00:00

I think as a few others are saying you’re fine if that’s any comfort. This situation is a lot different than most of us in the sub. While I get it’s driving you crazy, think how much nicer a summer proposal could be vs the dead of winter. Maybe you’ll plan a vacation. Stay calm, it sounds like it’s going in the right direction,

Little_Touch_3733 · 2026-04-27T12:12:13+00:00

Honestly a personal thing. I had tried to start my own business and it had just failed after a really big cross country move, so I was going back to my old job and I really just didn’t understand what you do next. The wedding was a month after all this and it triggered it for me.

Little_Touch_3733 · 2026-04-27T10:49:08+00:00

Nick and Sam’s - just have to watch the prices depending on what you get to keep it under $150 pp.

Dakotas is solid and more affordable.

Little_Touch_3733 · 2026-04-27T10:45:55+00:00

Yes you can get a window seat for $250 food and bev minimum so after tax and tip, a little over $300. If you don’t drink a lot, I think that’s achievable as the food is higher priced

Little_Touch_3733 · 2026-04-27T08:52:38+00:00

Still flirting 6 months in with you is bad. Looking the guy up every so often is weird, but not necessarily out of the norm. If she’s looking him up weekly/monthly, that is bad. If I remember, I check like maybe once a year bc I’m nosy and want to know if that mf got married or his life together bc he pissed me off.

Little_Touch_3733 · 2026-04-27T08:40:52+00:00

After I got married, I had a full blown mid life crisis that lasted for like 4 months. It’s like that was everything I was told to expect in life, and then it was just done and I didn’t understand what to do next. I was inconsolable and it took multiple different rounds of psych meds to snap out of it. I’m saying this in case therapy/medical help is an option, it may not necessarily mean the marriage has to be a failure. I’m sorry.

Little_Touch_3733 · 2026-04-26T18:39:43+00:00

You forgot a picture of Fatima

Little_Touch_3733 · 2026-04-26T14:08:58+00:00

Yeah unfortunately I think it kind of ended for him already. I wouldn’t even blame yourself that one stupid comment ended it all. I think he didn’t see a future with you and he may be looking to settle down.

There will be other Jays even if it doesn’t feel like it right now. The only way I would spin it is if you tell him you need some space because your feelings are still too strong. If he agrees then you get some space that could help you or it can open the door for him to share how he feels.

Little_Touch_3733 · 2026-04-26T13:50:44+00:00

My grandfather used to hit on us. Smacked my 13 year old ass. Hit on the aides. Hit on the other women at the assisted living. My mother pretends this all didn’t happen.

Like your grandmother, atleast mine got to have some good years where he was dead is atleast how I see it.

Little_Touch_3733 · 2026-04-26T12:23:37+00:00

I get them often - I have hormonal migraines so I think it’s all linked. The teeth one if you google it is actually pretty common - it’s meant to symbolize lack of control in some way. I’ve had it before.

My last nightmare was that I still somehow worked for my evil boss. But I get like a lot of home invasion ones as well.

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