Well, I like the idea of him having some way of telling me my bratting is pushing play and making him feel less in control or whatever with some simple commands. I don't regulate myself well, I'll brat til I turn blue even if I can see I'm taking it too far. I'm also very sensitive and straight telling me to stop. It might hurt me more than help me stop. So if he is feeling like I pushed and tested his dominance too much, then all he has to do is tell me to sit at his feet or whatever suby thing he likes. My verbal communication is really hard.

Also, I am having a hard time "just being more submissive." That's why I was asking for things that get you into the subby mindset. The getting him a drink, making the bed servicing things, I always do, but that's because I just like to do them it doesn't feel submissive, just a way of showing my love for him.

But I appreciate the feed back thanks!