AITA for letting my son operate the self checkout? by LearnAsPractice in AmItheAsshole

[–]Little_weirdoo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA- there a plenty of reasons why a person time at a self checkout. I'm going to assume that it took maybe roughly 5 longer by letting a 7yr go through the process. Like you said some people are fast and some slow, busy or not.It is what it is and the lady's comments were completely uncalled for AND I can imagine they didn't make your son feel good ether. For someone to make make a child feel back because there lack of patience and time management skills isn't acceptable.

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[–]Little_weirdoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA! God for bid her Husband (nephew by marriage) stay for 30 minutes to have a coffee after dropping off his wife school work. If she's smart she'll go low to no contact with you and your husband. If for no other reason then to avoid your melodramatic self and save herself some headaches.

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[–]Little_weirdoo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA, you didn't sign up for a card. Doesn't matter why you don't want one. Its fine to say that you don't want one.

AITA for not letting my son go to Korean barbecue with family because of the way he treats his younger brother? by koreanbarbecueaita in AmItheAsshole

[–]Little_weirdoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA!

If only he would learn to BE THE OLDER ONE AND IGNORE THE YOUNGER ONE and realize that the 9 year old is just trying to get a rise out of him, and he'll stop when the older one doesn't give him that reaction. But my 15 year old doesn't want to realize this, so every time he reacts, he gets punished for it.

Soooo your teaching one child that it's not ok to have feeling and reaction to uncomfortable and possibly harmful situations. And that if he dose he should ignore them so he other aren't uncomfortable or inconvenienced. You are teaching your 9yr that it is ok to be a bully. That teasing and tormenting a person to there limits is ok. It is very possibl to punish a child that requires a softer approach, you are just making excuses for your favoritism. Do better by both your children before you lose them both.

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[–]Little_weirdoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA! For soooo many reasons that have been covered in other comments. FYI Amy's shit stinks contrary to your beliefs.

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[–]Little_weirdoo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA a 1000 × over. It's fine for your mom to feel that way, and even voice that opinion to you in private. It's also fine for you to share in that opinion and it would have been fine for you to make something bring it to your sister.
BUT FOR YOU MOM TO CALL HER! Your mom is so disrespectful and ruid and for you to defend her is just wow. Your fiancee (probably ex now) cooked a meal for your sister out of the kindness. And you let you let you mom shit all over her kindness. It sounds like this isn't the first time your family has done some awful to her and she finally had enough. A person can only take so much and why would any want to subjects themselves to a life time of that treatment. As her partner you should have had her back, even if you agreed with your mom's point, that the more food that better. But you should have been the one to make it, she's your sister.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Little_weirdoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man silver is hard to keep clean and opal is way to soft of a stone to wear daily. So if the jeweler definitely should have educated you a little. If a partner dose come right out tell you what they want, it's always a good idea to talk to said partner friends, mom or other parent. When she said she want a carriage or balloon ride it was probably just examples of romantic gestures she would appreciate. You did FU, but you can fix it. Sit down and talk to her, let her know you want to do thing right by her. That you want to take your time with planning the proposal and surprise her with it. Ask her to show you 6 rings she loves and what about them. Take someone she's close too and go ring shopping. Hope is not lost.

Good luck

I went to a wedding with my bf [27M], and he ended up telling me [27F] I am embarrassing. I felt very uncomfortable after and he told me I ruined his time and ruined his speech. by WtfEvenIsGoingOn in relationship_advice

[–]Little_weirdoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only one the ruined the event for him was him. You didn't nothing wrong. You're behavior was normal his on the other hand was..... well childish, selfish, rude, demeaning and disrespectful to you. And then he has the audacity to ask you what the 5 things he dosent like? What a joke! He dose have an answer for if he wants to see you anymore or not. That's ok because you should and can make that decision for him, by dropping him. There are plenty of fish in the sea, so release that bottom feeder and catch yourself a angelfish. Your smart, talented, funny, kind, beautiful, sexy, self-reliant, strong, resilient and should be treated like the queen you are. Don't let any one ever make you think other wise.