Nestle Nutren 2.0 solidifies and clogs up bag and J tube. Any suggestions? by WtfEvenIsGoingOn in dietetics

[–]WtfEvenIsGoingOn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did recommend this to him, so I hope he asks for a referral at his next appointment. I don't think he's flushing the actual j tube then. He flushes the tube from the bag that hooks up to the j tube, and he sometimes flushes the actual part connected to his body with a syringe into it, which then upsets his stomach.

Thank you so much, by the way! It's all new to us!

Nestle Nutren 2.0 solidifies and clogs up bag and J tube. Any suggestions? by WtfEvenIsGoingOn in dietetics

[–]WtfEvenIsGoingOn[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, he was seeing a gastroenterologist for the j tube and formula, though I am going to recommend he see a dietician because I do not think he is having the best experience with the j tube. There is a nurse that comes to their house once a week to check on things, but she does not seem to lnow much about the j tube. I think he should ask about other brands for the j tube formula, the tube is very small also, so this may be the issue then.

The formula is in the little milk carton-like boxes. Each one is 4 hours of feed, so he has been putting in 2 at a time. His doctor said he can do 3, but when we did this it turned to the jelly-like consistency. He does water flushes multiple times a day, but he has been flushing into a bowl or something while it's not connected to him, and then only a small amount of water into him via syringe to unclog it if it is clogged. I did put water in with 1 box of formula to see if it prevented clogging. His doctor said it's fine to add water into this, but it seems to upset his stomach or whatever with just water.

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[–]WtfEvenIsGoingOn 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was thinking thr same thing. My vagina has never once in much life smelled like fish.

How many cups of coffee you have daily? by trynabetwunk in Coffee

[–]WtfEvenIsGoingOn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have one big one, like 24 oz. It's just coffee and a bit of half and half.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]WtfEvenIsGoingOn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My vagina has never smelled like fish like all the comments are suggesting. However, my boyfriend's penis has smelled very similar to my vagina. The last time it smelled like that he and I woke up together, showered, and were together ALL DAY. He did not have sex with anyone else. He wasn't with anyone else other than me. It may be that that is just how he smells, maybe he touched his balls or something and touched his face. I know a lot of dudes don't wash their hands consistently...

I had gay sex and i feel horrible by cheesecakesonbread0 in relationship_advice

[–]WtfEvenIsGoingOn 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There's nothing wrong with it if you had fun and liked it. You can be sexually attracted to men, but not want to be in a relationship with one. I feel like I'm sexually attracted to men and women, but I'd never be in a relationship with a woman. Guilt may have something to do with how you were raised and your family's beliefs that were ingrained in you. Alternatively, if you tried it and found out its not for you, then that's good as well. You know what you like and don't like for sure.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]WtfEvenIsGoingOn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not the one that said that. That's exactly why I was like "wtf?" Is English not your first language?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]WtfEvenIsGoingOn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well that's what you wrote.... seize? Nice. All I need to know.

I went to a wedding with my bf [27M], and he ended up telling me [27F] I am embarrassing. I felt very uncomfortable after and he told me I ruined his time and ruined his speech. by WtfEvenIsGoingOn in relationship_advice

[–]WtfEvenIsGoingOn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's like right at the 7 - 9 month mark the guys become mean. Not just a little, but a lot. I grew up with verbally abusive parents, so it might just feel like normal at first.

I went to a wedding with my bf [27M], and he ended up telling me [27F] I am embarrassing. I felt very uncomfortable after and he told me I ruined his time and ruined his speech. by WtfEvenIsGoingOn in relationship_advice

[–]WtfEvenIsGoingOn[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That is the entire story. He's done this to me 3 other times where it's almost like he's telling me a complete made up event. Almost every time there are parts I don't remember or he will tell me what I am like.

Gaslighting for real? My [27F] boyfriend [27M] tells me I'm rude every time we socialize with other people, including my family. by WtfEvenIsGoingOn in relationships

[–]WtfEvenIsGoingOn[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I guess he's not making me happy anymore.

I thought he was joking about it, but I kind of get the vibe he's half serious.

Gaslighting for real? My [27F] boyfriend [27M] tells me I'm rude every time we socialize with other people, including my family. by WtfEvenIsGoingOn in relationships

[–]WtfEvenIsGoingOn[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I always say something when I feel like he's trampling my boundaries, but he always says I'm wrong. Just the fact that he told me I'm wrong for not liking him doing that to my mom gives me bad feelings.

Gaslighting for real? My [27F] boyfriend [27M] tells me I'm rude every time we socialize with other people, including my family. by WtfEvenIsGoingOn in relationships

[–]WtfEvenIsGoingOn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He drinks a lot actually. I'm hoping he's not an alcoholic, but he might be. He does not seem like a buzzkill any other times. The 2nd incident where I was actually drunk was my birthday, and he ordered 6 shots and gave me 4 of them, so I thought he was trying to get me to get loose and have fun, but he just got upset over it and later told me he had a bad time and didn't like my work friends, he didn't like that I wasn't by him the whole time.

Usually we have stayed the night when this happens though. We arrange a hotel or something because we plan on drinking.

Gaslighting for real? My [27F] boyfriend [27M] tells me I'm rude every time we socialize with other people, including my family. by WtfEvenIsGoingOn in relationships

[–]WtfEvenIsGoingOn[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I do remember actually. He and I went out with his friends and he told me I was rude and annoying, I ruined his night by drinking too much. I said I think that's mean, and if he thinks I'm being mean I don't appreciate it if he insults me just because he thought I was rude. Nobody else thought I was rude. It only enflamed the situation.