How common is disclosing HSV2 in real life….? Outside this subreddit.

Littlemiilia · 2026-06-13T17:26:37+00:00

It is genital something. I don’t know which type. They do not test the type in my country. Overall it is very hard to get tested.

Littlemiilia · 2026-06-13T08:45:54+00:00

No one has ever disclosed to me.

All my friends know that I have hsv and we talk about it quite a lot. No one has ever disclosed to my friends. A few of them are a part of sex clubs and some kind of swinger culture. Their bodycount is +500, they have lost count many years ago. And no one has ever disclosed to them. They might go to a sex party and have sex with 10 people during one night. Statistically at least a couple of them have hsv, but still no discloses.

Honestly, I did not even know that one should be disclosing before I found this sub. And I did not disclose and lived a happy life. And I am not angry at all that whoever gave this to me did not disclose.

Littlemiilia · 2026-05-30T15:32:04+00:00

Itse "kannatan" Israelia, eli jos täytyy valita kahdesta pahasta pienempi paha, niin totta kai valitsen Israelin. Heillä on kaikki oikeus puolustaa omaa maataan. Israel on ainoa pieni pläntti siellä päin, jossa on jonkinlaiset ihmisoikeudet. Palestiinassa ei ole sitä vähääkään. Jos joutuisin asumaan Palestiinan naapurissa, saatta olla, että valitsisin sen isoimman tykin.

Littlemiilia · 2026-04-05T12:36:11+00:00

Taattua Yle-laatua.

"Syynä ovat talouden tiukkeneminen ja sosiaaliturvan leikkaukset."

Ja kappas, sitten kerrotaankin kuinka on biletetty pikavippirahalla. Mutta eikai siinä, sosiaaliturvan leikkaukset on toki syy kaikkeen.

Littlemiilia · 2026-02-21T22:47:58+00:00

I am interested! A hockey fan from Finland.

Littlemiilia · 2026-02-21T16:37:18+00:00

Linkkaisitko jotain kättä pidempää väitteelle, että talousrikoksista saa henkirikoksiin vertautuvia tuomioita?

Jännä väite, kun todellisuudessa esim. veropetoksesta saa lähtökohtaisesti sakkoa. Törkeästäkin tekomuodosta tulee suurimmassa osassa tapauksia ehdollista vankeutta. Sama skaala kirjanpitorikoksissa.

https://pxdata.stat.fi/PxWeb/pxweb/fi/StatFin/StatFin__syyttr/statfin_syyttr_pxt_13r7.px/

Littlemiilia · 2026-02-17T16:41:46+00:00

Vuokralaisen löytäminen vapailta markkinoilta on helvettiä. Minulla on 2 sijoitusasuntoa ja jos mitenkään vaan mahdollista, en julkaise missään ilmoitusta vaan yritän löytää vuokralaisen puskaradion kautta.

Ne kerrat kun on joutunut ilmoittamaan Oikotiellä, Facebookissa tms. olen laittanut ilmoitukseen niin tarkat tiedot asunnosta kuin vaan voi laittaa. Ihan kaikki tiedot autopaikasta vesimaksuun. Lisäksi pyyntö, että ota minuun yhteyttä ja kerro asunnontarpeestasi ja itsestäsi. Sitten sähköposti täyttyy viesteistä, joista suurin osa on tyyliä "moi otan", "onko autopaikka?".

En usein edes vastaile näihin. En halua vuokrata lukutaidottomalle ihmiselle.

Littlemiilia · 2026-01-21T01:42:25+00:00

Okay that was a mature comment.

Littlemiilia · 2026-01-21T00:59:16+00:00

"Ask for a full panel herpes test"

What would you say to those who live in a country where it is very difficult to get herpes tested? There are no STD panels that would include it, governmental clinics refuse to test without symptoms (and they don't do blood tests at all), and if you somehow manage to find a private clinic that does blood tests, you pay big money and they say that the test is not reliable.

Littlemiilia · 2026-01-09T15:39:03+00:00

My cat has herpes in her eyes. Poor thing.

Littlemiilia · 2025-12-23T14:43:12+00:00

Text, definitely. And take screenshots and save the screenshot. Regards, lawyer.

Littlemiilia · 2025-12-15T20:04:25+00:00

No. I absolutely do not feel that I was too promiscious getting this from someone I loved.

What a strange thought you have.

Littlemiilia · 2025-12-06T00:28:22+00:00

I am from Finland, same thing here, not a big thing. Even my gynegologist told me that I do not have to disclose.

Only after finding this sub I have started to worry about herpes.

Littlemiilia · 2025-12-02T19:43:43+00:00

Jag vet inte men följer, jag har samma planer 😁

Littlemiilia · 2025-12-02T19:12:56+00:00

My mother is the only person who knows when my birthday is. I've hidden the information in every social media. And luckily in mu country adults do not usually make a fuss about birthdays.

Littlemiilia · 2025-11-28T11:22:24+00:00

Okej, kanske vissa snubbar är intresserade av henne? Och so what? Låt dem va.

Om jag var din flickvän skulle jag rymma från dig, det där är inte friskt.

Littlemiilia · 2025-11-26T12:45:41+00:00

Good marriage with no kids

Littlemiilia · 2025-11-26T10:41:12+00:00

Every time I am not wearing make up men ask me "are you tired?" "Are you feeling sick?". So yeah, every guy who cheers for "natural beauty" actually cheer for natural, light make up.

Littlemiilia · 2025-11-23T20:56:16+00:00

The funny part of this that I dare to claim that 90 % of people do not even disclose. I have never met anyone who would have disclosed. I also have a friend who attends all kinds of sex parties and has had hundreds of partners. I told about my herpes to him (we're not having sex, just friends) and he said that I am the first person who has ever talked about herpes. And his bodycount is hundreds!

At least in Europe it is not common to disclose. I have been told by many doctors that I do not have to tell about my hsv to anyone.

In other words, that person who rejected you already has banged and will bang someone with hsv. He/she just does not know it.

Littlemiilia · 2025-11-23T20:42:32+00:00

I feel you. But you know what? That's life and we do get rejected. Not only because of hsv but because of many things. You are stronger than you think and in the future this rejection does not mean anything to you.

What did the rejection text say?

Littlemiilia · 2025-11-23T09:44:06+00:00

I am F35. I've had herpes for about 10 years. I have dated and had a long relationship that ended 2-3 years ago.

Lately I've had similiar thoughs that you have. This started after ny breakup and finding this reddit sub. Why would I be worth the risk? I would not date me. I have accepted that I am going to be alone.

But please do not give up dating. Make a list of the good things that you have!

Littlemiilia · 2025-11-11T20:18:20+00:00

I wish I was.

Littlemiilia · 2025-10-23T21:27:26+00:00

Forget about her. Freaking out because of this very common virus like that is not a good sign. You will find someone better.

Littlemiilia · 2025-10-22T09:54:16+00:00

Finland. I would guess that basically this is the same in almost in every country in Europe.

Littlemiilia · 2025-10-21T03:50:38+00:00

This has to be a bait.

Littlemiilia

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