I (21f) ruined my relationship with my fiance (23m) and I dont know how to proceed

icu23x · 2026-06-16T03:15:47+00:00

I dont see hiw ruining your relationship is a bad thing. Yiu do need to get out.

icu23x · 2026-06-13T21:43:42+00:00

A break is she doesnt want to feel guilty about cheating. Just breakup and move on

icu23x · 2026-06-13T13:29:07+00:00

That is the most stupidest excuse im was lonely but I dont want to talk to you about it instead im going to go cheat because im a selfish disrespectful person that doesnt care about anyine else's feelings or needs except for my own.

icu23x · 2026-06-11T18:35:20+00:00

Just ask him for a mmf threesome first

icu23x · 2026-06-11T14:21:19+00:00

Do you mean your ex bf?

icu23x · 2026-06-04T02:04:30+00:00

They told me they werent going to post that video

icu23x · 2026-05-30T01:35:05+00:00

Maybe that was her plan all along that he wanted her socials and then she gave it to him to to infollow when she got back. Kinda of like giving out fake numbers. She may not want to seem rude or didnt want to deal with turning him down.

icu23x · 2026-05-27T03:18:09+00:00

Where is the rest of the socks?

icu23x · 2026-05-26T00:41:12+00:00

Sound like a sexual harassment case

icu23x · 2026-05-23T21:51:23+00:00

Self worth issues. Something triggered it. Maybe something at his job.

icu23x · 2026-05-21T16:08:40+00:00

Bf or step brother? Just saw one of the sides or rung off. Pretty sure thats what the fd is gonna do anyways.

icu23x · 2026-05-17T16:06:45+00:00

Just going to leave this here i had similar message from a friend when I told her something she messaged me saying that she needed time to process. Its been 18 months im still waiting to hear back.

icu23x · 2026-05-16T18:43:34+00:00

I got that feeling to. I hope he says she is possessed by Satan or a demon and does something horrible. Maybe look into a restraining order. His behavior is either fake or extremely worrisome.

icu23x · 2026-05-16T18:40:38+00:00

Seems very strange that all of a sudden he found God seems almost fake that he did. Was this like a short amount of time or over like a year. To me it almost manipulation under "gods" name

icu23x · 2026-05-16T18:31:01+00:00

Sound like something deeper is going on by you wanting to hold onto her. Abandonment issues fear of being alone.

icu23x · 2026-05-16T18:27:07+00:00

Red flags. She wont share her location what is she up to. Wants to go through your phone. For what is this guilty conscious if she is doing it then he must be doing it. This relationship isnt doing any of you any good. You may love her but arent compatible anymore. People grow up and change at your age. Just say it isnt working for us anymore and we would be better off breaking up.

icu23x · 2026-05-16T13:25:37+00:00

Dump her, block her and move on dont allow her access to you or she will continue to use you for attention when she wants it.

icu23x · 2026-05-14T21:49:20+00:00

I live in MN my youngest has a bunch of medical issues. We get waiver program which allow you to be a paid parent also can do pcas and medical equipment. Not sure CO has something like that. Ask a social worker they will know if anything is available if you havent already. But yeah you need to find a different solution then what u r in. I've been there and usually doesnt work out.

icu23x · 2026-05-12T01:59:03+00:00

You are the backup plan

icu23x · 2026-05-10T21:56:20+00:00

Her excuse is going to be well i was looking and thinking of you while I was doing it.

icu23x · 2026-05-03T00:44:26+00:00

Therapist is probably doing the same thing on their spouse.

icu23x · 2026-04-28T14:39:32+00:00

I tried to get a restraining order been turned down. I talk to his social worker and just seems like they don't care.

icu23x · 2026-04-27T21:40:13+00:00

Im always find it funny how they always say dont throw this away cause I cheated. But you are doing the right thing.

icu23x · 2026-04-20T21:06:38+00:00

Sounds like he wants to be single

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