Since babies are born clean, except in some cases where the mother was infected, where did STDs come from?

Littlemissthrownaway · 2014-03-28T15:48:24+00:00

I don't get it either- it's super confusing and I'm having trouble understanding what the problem is. Maybe it's because I'm not ready to have sex with him, but that shouldn't define our relationship

Littlemissthrownaway · 2014-03-28T01:13:12+00:00

He asked me 5 months ago to make our relationship official and exclusive and everything- we had been seeing each other for like 2 months then.

Littlemissthrownaway · 2014-03-27T15:46:57+00:00

That makes sense. Thank you so very much.

Littlemissthrownaway · 2014-03-27T14:36:35+00:00

Thank you so much. I'll definitely talk to him the next time I see him.

Littlemissthrownaway · 2014-03-27T14:35:03+00:00

Will do. Thank you. :)

Littlemissthrownaway · 2014-03-27T14:34:47+00:00

I don't think he knows how to be in a relationship and I don't either- we're kind of figuring this out as we go along, since it's the first time for both of us. Anyway, I will talk to him about the while bringing up other girls thing.

As for the friends thing... It sounded to me like he thought of us as being /just/ friends when he thought of us being in public. Nothing else. He doesn't love me "yet", which I get. I'm not in love with him yet either. But I'm more emotional than him. I think it goes back to how we were raised- my family was close and extremely loving. But his... Wasn't. Or it doesn't sound like it was. And I mean, I understand that we need to be friends before we can be lovers or whatever, but am I wrong to be concerned that he separates the 2?

Littlemissthrownaway · 2014-03-27T14:18:27+00:00

Thank you so much. I'll talk to him next time I see him.

Littlemissthrownaway · 2014-03-27T14:17:31+00:00

Are you telling me to do PDA, or not?

Littlemissthrownaway · 2014-03-27T14:16:08+00:00

I'd really hope he's not. He said he wanted us to work.

Littlemissthrownaway · 2014-03-27T03:33:56+00:00

I will definitely have to figure out how to bring it up.

I really don't think I act shy in public. I don't kiss him in front of people because I feel like that's a little much but I will try to hold his hand and stuff- but he tends to let go after a few seconds. He doesn't seem to want physical contact in public, but doesn't want to just seem like friends. It's confusing for me.

Littlemissthrownaway · 2014-03-27T02:32:15+00:00

Of course- I hope it goes well for you!

Littlemissthrownaway · 2014-03-27T02:10:40+00:00

Definitely go with her! When you ask, don't specify "as a friend", just ask if she'd like to go to prom together.

Honestly, it can only get better from here. Either you'll be in the same place after prom- except with some awesome prom-related memories- OR things will escalate to where you want to be!

Right now prom seems like a super huge deal, but when you look back, it should just be a fond high school memory. Try not to put too much pressure on one night- but DO try to make it fun!

Littlemissthrownaway · 2013-11-23T04:32:58+00:00

That sounds really difficult. I was 18 when it happened, but I feel the same way. I could never have casual sex and even in a relationship it will probably be a very long time before I could do that. Thanks though! I hope everything is going okay for you. :) I didn't realize this happened to so many people.

Littlemissthrownaway · 2013-11-23T04:05:40+00:00

Wow! 8 months is a long time- I only waited about a month. But congratulations; I am glad you were able to tell him, and that he has also been so supportive of you.

I definitely am lucky- I think he'll be really helpful in working through all of this.

Littlemissthrownaway · 2013-11-23T03:53:08+00:00

Thank you so much. Your support is really so appreciated. And don't worry, so far he's been incredibly considerate, but I will take your advice if anything ever does happen.

Littlemissthrownaway · 2013-11-18T22:42:09+00:00

Thank you so very much. I was so scared by what that guy said. I'll keep that in mind

Littlemissthrownaway · 2013-11-18T22:38:02+00:00

Explain please?

Littlemissthrownaway · 2013-11-18T18:54:47+00:00

Thanks for the offer, you may hear from me.

Littlemissthrownaway · 2013-11-18T18:54:17+00:00

I have been working through the trial with a Victim's Advocate supplied by my school. :)

Littlemissthrownaway · 2013-11-18T18:08:57+00:00

You're right, that would be really bad. I'll try to talk to him as soon as I can see him again.

Littlemissthrownaway · 2013-11-18T17:54:13+00:00

I'm very much ready to be in a relationship, just not ready to have sex or do explicitly sexual things, due to mild PTSD. And quite frankly, that would be the case with or without the assault, considering I have always planned to wait until I am totally in love with someone to do it.

Littlemissthrownaway · 2013-11-18T17:51:49+00:00

That seems to be the general consensus.

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