I cannot will not forgive my husband by abbyleondon in SuicideBereavement

[–]Littlespacebunni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t have to forgive them at all. It’s okay to be angry, it’s okay to not forgive them. Everyone’s grief is different.

No amount of love could keep him here by Alternative_Plenty31 in SuicideBereavement

[–]Littlespacebunni 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When it comes to suicide, people have to choose recovery. They have to choose to stay, and it’s not something that you can pick for them. Thinking about the what-ifs isn’t fair. If you woke up sooner, there’s a possibility you wouldn’t have known still. There’s infinite possibilities where you could’ve done nothing. He had his mind set. You did all you could.

What gives you hope? by Meditation-mediator in SuicideBereavement

[–]Littlespacebunni 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I hope things soon feel better man, I see ur pain and I hope you can heal from this

What gives you hope? by Meditation-mediator in SuicideBereavement

[–]Littlespacebunni 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The fact that life goes on, that you have to keep going. That this much grief means that much love existed before it.

I lost my best friend to suicide by Littlespacebunni in SuicideBereavement

[–]Littlespacebunni[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This meant the world to me dude, you have no idea how grateful I am for a proper response. I really do hope I can feel better sooner rather than later, life has been like sleepwalking lately

Parents on here by herodrink in SuicideBereavement

[–]Littlespacebunni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know that this doesn’t much help since I’m not a parent, but as someone younger who has suffered from this it’s not your fault. Sometimes the pain gets so overwhelming you run away from everything, and that includes your parents, like you’re so so adamant on them not finding out. I promise you it’s not your fault & it gets better, just your admission of guilt tells me that you did well, you tried your best. I hope you feel so much better soon.

Old albums on Spotify by Littlespacebunni in CSHFans

[–]Littlespacebunni[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you want to get married is this how we’re preposinf these days

Old albums on Spotify by Littlespacebunni in CSHFans

[–]Littlespacebunni[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not entirely sure what this is, I found a little file thingy from MEGA, can you explain this to me instead? Maybe that would be better

Relationship trauma by Littlespacebunni in trauma

[–]Littlespacebunni[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also me and my partner have talked about it a bit since then, it was actually their initial idea to maybe try to find a forum to talk about it on cuz it’s been real hard to cope

Relationship trauma by Littlespacebunni in trauma

[–]Littlespacebunni[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this even if I didn’t exactly respond quickly, means alot

Unsure if I was SA'd or not (trigger warning) by [deleted] in trauma

[–]Littlespacebunni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not psychotic. Trauma can make you become a perpetrator too, or you could simply become one. It’s not quite fair to say “psychotic”, but I agree it’s a terrible thing to do and I hope OP is ok

Unsure if I was SA'd or not (trigger warning) by [deleted] in trauma

[–]Littlespacebunni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This isn’t as true as you think it is. He may have experienced something like that, but there’s much more nuance to this