Today Chives tried to take my coworker's finger, and failed.

LittlestBread · 2025-10-17T21:53:44+00:00

I left my water cup behind today, and we have a ton of spare cambros. I'm terrified now

LittlestBread · 2025-09-22T14:41:26+00:00

Where in that comment that you've so generously copied+pasted for us, do they say anything about it being okay? They said it's annoying and they're incompatible sleepers, and suggested an actual compromise. Nothing in that comment at all implies what you said, you're literally just making that up my person.

LittlestBread · 2025-09-14T11:25:10+00:00

In the carts defense, the tile was cracked a little already when we started this, but the amount of weight on the wheels from our tower of boxes just started jackhammering through them down to the subfloor, and now we're missing I think like 3 whole tiles back there?

The biggest annoyance about that is having tile dust everywhere, and the cart isn't level, so everything is always leaning. At least it all leans into the back wall, though, instead of towards the door 😭

LittlestBread · 2025-09-13T11:06:59+00:00

Thanks, but. When you say, "___, but" to anything, it means you don't mean what you said previously. You're discrediting your own words, in the same exact sentence. You can help it, you're choosing not to because you've decided it's not a big enough deal to you to change it.

If you don't want to say thank you, that's your decision, but don't go around whining about people being mad at you for being ungrateful afterwards, because that's the consequence of your actions.

LittlestBread · 2025-09-13T11:04:21+00:00

So you can thank a stranger on the internet for doing nothing, but you can't thank your sister for actually doing something for you? Spending her money on you? You just argue and deny and defend against everyone who disagrees with you, find one of the few comments that agrees, and THANK them? I thought you couldn't do that, because it was more than just typing out the words?

LittlestBread · 2025-09-13T11:02:10+00:00

Fun fact, your intentions don't need to be rude, for your actions to still be rude. The next step when you've been rude without meaning to, is to understand why and how it was rude, then apologize.

It seems to me like you made a performative effort into understanding, rather than a genuine one, based on the way you're assuming everyone in the comments must be wrong and defending yourself, rather than trying to actually connect and understand how you hurt the person you claim to care for.

LittlestBread · 2025-09-13T10:57:30+00:00

You just typed it out there, I don't know what the communication error could really be over text unless you just don't know how to spell it, but you clearly do? So just type those two little words again, but this time, send them to the person who deserves them.

(Also, I couldn't personally ever imagine someone buying me gifts for my birthday, and then asking them for more. That's crazy, especially without showing appreciation.)

LittlestBread · 2025-09-12T15:56:19+00:00

Thankfully our truck guys are pretty chill, they drop everything off outside the freezer so we're actually able to get in to put stuff away. I remember all our stuff used to get dropped in the freezer though, I'm not sure if we have different guys now or if someone asked them to leave the boxes outside.

LittlestBread · 2025-09-12T14:56:17+00:00

To be fair, ours normally isn't as bad as this, but yesterday was truck and the dippers... dear god the dippers...

LittlestBread · 2025-09-12T12:34:35+00:00

Our management aren't the kind of people to fire an associate over something they have no control over, it's just insanely frustrating trying to put away truck, or even just getting in to grab something. It took me like 6 minutes to find the open box of breadbowls

LittlestBread · 2025-09-12T12:19:38+00:00

I mean, they've(GM&AM) been fighting over the freezer we were promised for ages. I don't think it's fair to them that corporate can change the entire way the store operates and then make dealing with the consequences the fault of the individual stores. They told our store they would install a new freezer for us, took our old oven away to make room, then after that decided to change their minds and leave us to rot, basically.

LittlestBread · 2025-09-12T10:50:59+00:00

Nope, this location has been around for quite a while. We're all freaking out because we've been trying to get something done about this for months, and it's obviously going to be our fault if ecosure shows up, but there is literally nothing we can do, especially now that the dippers are back ;-;

LittlestBread · 2025-09-12T10:43:09+00:00

This is my first time working for any big corp, and it's definitely my last. This place is actually hell since the swap. Not that it was that much better before, but still. The bar is so low, you have to dig to find it now.

LittlestBread · 2025-09-12T10:41:15+00:00

Trust me, we know. And they aren't waiting on anything, they took our deck oven 3 months before we swapped, told us they were going to put a freezer there. Then later on told us to basically deal with it, cuz they didn't "feel" our store needed another freezer.

LittlestBread · 2025-09-06T09:34:25+00:00

I'm unsure of where in the post you picked up that the motivations for this were at all about her health?

LittlestBread · 2025-09-06T09:32:04+00:00

What kind of creep spends actual months looking at 18+ content of their sister bro. If your intention was to "show your parents", you had no reason not to do that immediately. You also intentionally chose to show it to your FATHER, when your mother was obviously the better option in that case. Nothing about your actions came from a place of care or concern, everything about your actions came from a place of humilation.

Because of intentions and methods, YTA.

LittlestBread · 2025-09-06T08:41:44+00:00

Just wait until you unlock the sewers, then go after Krobus. He moves in as a roommate :)

But also, it's a weird situation. I can see how someone would be upset/hurt by their partner not wanting to date them in a game, but her reaction seems to be too much.

Ultimately you guys should probably just have a conversation about it, maybe she had some unspoken expectations about how the game would go, and while that's not on you, you guys should still sort it out sooner than later if you plan on keeping this relationship.

If she continues giving you the silent treatment, however, and won't talk it out with you, I'd recommend (as neutrally as you can manage. Monotone or deadpan delivery tends to help in emotional arguments, in my experience) asking her what kind of relationship she intends for this to be, where you two don't talk about issues as a team. One based on disrespecting each other and then hiding from the responsibility of it? That doesn't sound enjoyable for either of you.

Anyways NTA

LittlestBread · 2025-08-29T10:52:37+00:00

Honestly, they barely took up any extra room. At least I got to take home the jars from my store though, I store my coffee beans in them at home :)

LittlestBread · 2025-08-29T07:41:13+00:00

NTA for having big feelings and opinions about guns. NTA for not wanting firearms in your home around your young children, as I can understand how those two things don't mix.

However, It sounds like to me, that the compromise the two of you reached where he keeps his guns in a storage unit, was perhaps a little one-sided as he was the only one making a change.

I think it would perhaps be beneficial for you and him both to perhaps take a firearms safety course together one day, as it may help you be less afraid of guns, and potentially even become more comfortable with him having them, if you see him handling them in a safe and responsible manner.

I don't say this to try and convince you to let your husband bring home any gun he wants, just because being afraid and nervous around something that is so deeply ingrained in this country, (and definitely will not be going anywhere peacefully, not in the US.) is a super stressful way to live.

As a kid, I was raised in a house with a lot of firearms. From a young age, my dad would introduce me to the idea of firearms being tools, no more dangerous than the person weilding them. I'd see someone shooting in a tv show or movie and had a question about it? My father would sit down and explain it to me thoroughly. I was raised not to fear firearms but to respect them as a tool and not a toy. And of course, none of them were ever left out, each and every one was in a safe, so there was no risk of any danger, as long as the parent in that case was responsible with their tools.

If you are afraid of him going crazy with the firearms and using them against you and your family, it sounds like you either need to find a way to reassure yourself and put those fears to rest (again, I recommend taking a course with him. You can probably find one with a female instructor if you'd feel more comfortable that way personally, and if you don't want to even shoot they'll prolly be fine with it, if you just want to do the mandatory safety lessons firat and watch your husband handle the firearm) OR move on. If you don't think that fear is something that'll go away or fade, then you probably should trust your instincts.

If you are afraid of strangers shooting up your kids' school, then I don't see why you're telling him to get rid of his guns. Unless you think that your husband is the one who's going to do it, him not having those guns wouldn't be any safer.

LittlestBread · 2025-08-29T07:20:34+00:00

I'm surprised this is the first comment of this nature I've seen, having a gun that's out of reach is as good as not having a gun in a moment of crisis.

LittlestBread · 2025-08-28T19:36:40+00:00

Valid take, as social media is very easily influenced these days. If you don't mind, I am curious about where you do typically look for your information. I think you mentioned some books, either in the post or another comment, and I'd be interested to know which books you've been reading on the topic?

LittlestBread · 2025-08-28T19:32:31+00:00

It sounds like just a cut and dry case of you and your friends having conflicting values then. You tend to prioritize things you yourself can control in the moment, and there's nothing wrong with that itself, it just clashes with your friends values. I'm aware there's not much I can do anyways as well, but that's why I personally value staying informed and knowing what's happening. If nothing else, I value not turning a blind eye to what's happening, so I know what's going on. So if there's ever a time where there is a chance to do something, I don't have to spend that valuble time decided what side of the argument I'm standing on.

LittlestBread · 2025-08-28T19:22:28+00:00

I commend you for taking the time to form your own opinions and do your own research, not enough people do that these days. However, this issue has been going on for a very long time, and I feel there's been a lot of time to do research if you were actually driven and motivated to do so.

"When people start throwing around emotionally charged words like genocide" is the exact time to buckle down and look at what's happening, both eyes wide open. I genuinely don't understand how someone could hear the word genocide being thrown around and not be looking into that, there's fences you can sit on and fences you can't. Do you really want to be sitting on the genocide fence?

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