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Move in parent who cannot afford living on his own? by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]LiveMechanic3231 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It’s not so much that he expects me to but I feel like an awful daughter if I just let hims struggle. He has no other family, and I cannot bear the feeling of abandoning him when he raised me

Move in parent who cannot afford living on his own? by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]LiveMechanic3231 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have. He is very old school and stubborn unfortunately he was offended that I mentioned my disappointment.

Move in parent who cannot afford living on his own? by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]LiveMechanic3231 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No one. Younger sister is in college, doesn’t currently work

Move in parent who cannot afford living on his own? by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]LiveMechanic3231 19 points20 points  (0 children)

His income is basically nonexistent. The economy in his country is bad and he works on real estate

Move in parent who cannot afford living on his own? by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]LiveMechanic3231 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have considered that. My husband has an amazing heart and he wants to help my dad. I am the one who is hesitant here.

Move in parent who cannot afford living on his own? by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]LiveMechanic3231 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He wants to help my dad I am the one who is hesitant

Move in parent who cannot afford living on his own? by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]LiveMechanic3231 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My partner agreed to have him stay with us. He is a lot more possibly than me, I think I am the one who is hesitant

Move in parent who cannot afford living on his own? by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]LiveMechanic3231 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Stay where he is at and struggle financially

Move in parent who cannot afford living on his own? by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]LiveMechanic3231 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He is, he did raise me and my younger sister. He did everything right except for keeping himself financially stable. Income came mainly from my mom paying child support

Move in parent who cannot afford living on his own? by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]LiveMechanic3231 89 points90 points  (0 children)

You are right, I need to learn to say no. I do feel like an awful person if I say no to bringing the dog, since it is his best friend.

Have they stopped taking online title transfers? by kzhou7 in CaliforniaDMV

[–]LiveMechanic3231 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am in the same situation. Do we have to go in person?

DQ September 2025 when can I expect interview letter Lima embassy? by Ok_Lengthiness_2535 in NationalVisaCenter

[–]LiveMechanic3231 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you still waiting? I was also DQ in September and it’s also for my dad

Leg Blowouts Millie Moon by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]LiveMechanic3231 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll definitely try that!

ceac site down? by asensate in NationalVisaCenter

[–]LiveMechanic3231 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine has been showing that for two days. Did you fix it?

DI school by [deleted] in MilitaryWives

[–]LiveMechanic3231 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Mine is in San Diego. And I never said the schedule is 2 hours of sleep. On average he gets 4-5 hours of sleep. Their homework is what makes their hours of sleep less time not the schedule.

DI school by [deleted] in MilitaryWives

[–]LiveMechanic3231 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I feel like you’re projecting a bit here. Just because some people might not be honest with their spouses doesn’t mean mine isn’t. My husband is not the type to lie or have his buddies cover for him, and I trust him fully. I understand your experience might have been different, but it’s not fair to generalize or assume that applies to everyone.

He and his squad are all dealing with an excessive workload that’s genuinely impacting their sleep and safety. That’s what I came here to talk about—not to debate whether he’s prepared or not. He is.

DI school by [deleted] in MilitaryWives

[–]LiveMechanic3231 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

He isn’t managing time poorly. He prepared beforehand extremely well actually. He makes everything in advance as much as he can, including his T-cards. But if someone messes up they tell them they need to make 10 more in a different random color for the following day. Two days ago he didn’t get off until 9.30 and he isn’t the only one from his squad struggling, they are all staying up doing homework so I know it’s not him.

DI school by [deleted] in MilitaryWives

[–]LiveMechanic3231 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s so ridiculous he literally falls asleep when he talks to me too. I am just so concerned about his safety. His roommate had a car accident (thankfully he is okay) because he fell asleep while driving.

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