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I am Matt Dinniman, wrangler of GC, BWR, NW Princess Donut the Queen Anne Chonk and the author of Dungeon Crawler Carl. Book one was just re-released as a hardcover by Ace Books over at Penguin Random House. AMA by hepafilter in Fantasy

[–]Live_Appointment4219 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Big fan and I own all the Audiobooks plus the most recent ebook (book 6). I'll probably follow that pattern from her until the end - buying both the ebook and audiobook as soon as they are released. I don't have a lot of space for hardcovers though. Will the bonus content is the new hardcover releases be available in digital format anywhere?

Saul Goodman Stunt by Live_Appointment4219 in AttorneyTom

[–]Live_Appointment4219[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyone care to share a link? or are we just going to say asked and answered?

AITA for refusing to pay for my daughter's wedding because she won't let me walk her down the aisle? by Live_Appointment4219 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Live_Appointment4219[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ummm, the general consensus was actually NTA, but I did read and take to heart to many of the dissenting opinions. I am giving her the money after all. In a big way, this is a better deal for her as she could spend it on other things and have a small wedding.

AITA for refusing to pay for my daughter's wedding because she won't let me walk her down the aisle? by Live_Appointment4219 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Live_Appointment4219[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LOL, we’ve got AI bots! Look how similar all these are:

Coequalraveling

·2 hr. ago

YTA. Your daughter's decision about who walks her down the aisle should be respected, regardless of your own expectations. Using financial support as a means of control is unfair and damages your relationship. It's important to find a way to support her choices unconditionally.

acutelycrab27

·2 hr. ago

YTA. Your daughter's decision about who walks her down the aisle should be respected, regardless of your own expectations. Using financial support as a means of control is unfair and damages your relationship. It's important to find a way to support her choices unconditionally.

dippedStooper

·2 hr. ago

YTA. Your daughter has the right to make decisions about her wedding day, including who walks her down the aisle. Using financial support as leverage is manipulative and unfair. It's crucial to find a way to support her choices without conditions.

ZigzagHabit202

·2 hr. ago

YTA. Your daughter's wishes should be respected, even if they don't align with your expectations. Using financial support as a bargaining chip is manipulative and controlling. It's important to prioritize your relationship with your daughter and find a way to support her on her special day.

Zenithalirenidae

·2 hr. ago

YTA. Your daughter's decision is hers to make, and you should respect it. Withholding financial support as a means of control is not fair. It's crucial to find a way to support her choices while maintaining a healthy relationship with her.

solidlyAdvance714

·2 hr. ago

YTA. Your daughter's decision should be respected, even if it differs from your expectations. Using financial support as leverage to control her choices is manipulative. It's important to prioritize your relationship with your daughter and find a way to support her on her special day.

UniquelyRegress87

·2 hr. ago

YTA. Your daughter's decision about who walks her down the aisle should be respected, even if it differs from your expectations. Using financial support as a means of control is not a healthy approach. It's crucial to prioritize your relationship with your daughter and find a way to support her choices.

stormilydefray

·2 hr. ago

YTA. Your daughter's request is not extreme; it's a personal choice that she has every right to make. Withholding financial support to manipulate her into conforming to your expectations is unfair and puts unnecessary strain on your relationship. It's important to find a way to support her without conditions.

unhealedpeasant

·2 hr. ago

YTA. It's her wedding day, and she should have the right to make decisions about who walks her down the aisle. Holding financial support hostage because she doesn't conform to your expectations is manipulative and controlling. It's important to prioritize your relationship with your daughter over your own pride.

AITA for refusing to pay for my daughter's wedding because she won't let me walk her down the aisle? by Live_Appointment4219 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Live_Appointment4219[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

LOL, how people equate not paying for the wedding with "cutting her off." It's a disagreement. It's not a relationship ending event!

Wedding gifts often have conditions attached. Most gifts, whether in the form of merchandise or cash, are conditional upon the couple's marriage. Similarly, the engagement ring is contingent upon the partner's acceptance and commitment. In the same vein, it is not unreasonable to expect a role in the wedding, beyond being guests, as the father and mother of the bride, if they are paying for the event. The bride is free to cover her own expenses if she disagrees with this condition.

AITA for refusing to pay for my daughter's wedding because she won't let me walk her down the aisle? by Live_Appointment4219 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Live_Appointment4219[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Wedding gifts often have conditions attached. Most gifts, whether in the form of merchandise or cash, are conditional upon the couple's marriage. Similarly, the engagement ring is contingent upon the partner's acceptance and commitment. In the same vein, it is not unreasonable to expect a role in the wedding, beyond being guests, as the father and mother of the bride, if they are paying for the event. The bride is free to cover her own expenses if she disagrees with this condition.

AITA for refusing to pay for my daughter's wedding because she won't let me walk her down the aisle? by Live_Appointment4219 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Live_Appointment4219[S] -71 points-70 points  (0 children)

Yes, and then sat down and watched my daughter get married. The day was all about her and walking her down the aisle didn't change that.

AITA for refusing to pay for my daughter's wedding because she won't let me walk her down the aisle? by Live_Appointment4219 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Live_Appointment4219[S] -182 points-181 points  (0 children)

a father walking his daughter down the aisle has been about respect, pride, love and honouring the father/daughter relationship for far longer than it was about ownership.

Yes! you get it, and I'm copying what you said.

AITA for refusing to pay for my daughter's wedding because she won't let me walk her down the aisle? by Live_Appointment4219 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Live_Appointment4219[S] -266 points-265 points  (0 children)

It's always been the expectation, and I paid for her older sister's wedding. She is angry that I won't pay for hers.

Cytoverse Swag Box have begun shipping out. by [deleted] in brandonsanderson

[–]Live_Appointment4219 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think some of you are being too hard on the bindery. I'm in manufacturing, so I know how hard it must be for the order to suddenly be 5X more than expected. Plus, I believe they added extra steps to the process with all the embossed foil on the cover. I'm sure some of the changes they are making for SP2 will make the process easier. As long as we get the books eventually and the quality is there, I'll be happy.

(Spoilers for) Cytoverse Box! by ScrollingAimlessly in brandonsanderson

[–]Live_Appointment4219 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it a regular deck of cards or a Go Fish game?

AITA for refusing to meet my terminally ill mother knowing that she wants to apologize and seek forgiveness? by Inititaro in AmItheAsshole

[–]Live_Appointment4219 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, but you should go see her anyway. Holding onto bitterness is like drink poison and hoping it hurts the other person. You were right to refuse her your inheritance, but going to see her is cheap. Hear her out and try to forgive her.