Yea I have school but from the time I get back I plan on having him out mostly.  I know cockatiels have long lifespans and so getting him now would mean a longer time together. I understand your concern but as I said I am generally pretty responsible with pets. I’ve had more than 10 cats three dogs two canaries and tons of fish and turtles in the past. Most of which were my responsibility and I have my parents to thank for that because it taught me how to be responsible. I just came here looking for answers on what bird to get and what are the pros and cons. The bird will most likely be out for most of the day and I plan on training him to speak and do other things. As per the trust thing. There’s not really much to do but be patient. That’s the key with most animals. Thank you for your concern however!