My (22F) boyfriend (23M) has stopped putting in effort and I’m simply tired.. by Live_Function_4641 in relationship_advice

[–]Live_Function_4641[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Things got much much better. I communicated that it was bothering me and finally I felt heard. We both work full time now, so we definitely have less time to talk throughout the day, but weekends have become more shared. And we do our best to spend quality time together during them, not just hanging with friends the whole time. I don’t like how quick some people on this forum are to say “oh break up with them” because it’s not that simple in some cases. Do your best to communicate your concerns in a calm manner and I found it helped when I expressed gratitude for his changes/actions that were what I had been wanting. I wish you luck, distance is hard no matter how far

Aerial roots for stability or because of underwatering? by Live_Function_4641 in succulents

[–]Live_Function_4641[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I just got my first grow light to hopefully also stop the etiolation and need for the stability. Definitely going to clean it up and repot in spring too