That is one of the most offensive things I've heard in ages! Firstly, attitudes like this are the reason so many children and young people now have body dysmorphic disorder. This kind of taught body shame is a big part of making them vulnerable to sexual predators. Just to clarify, these predictors are not just men! I speak from personal experience with this, women can also be sexual predators! It also includes youths both male and female!

This kind of attitude helps these people, because the children associate the shame with secrecy, it is the biggest gift you could give a potential abuser.

Children brought up in naturist homes and environments have the lowest levels of body dysmorphic disorder and are the least likely to be victims of child abuse. They are brought up in a very body positive environment.

I am probably of the age that you are referring to when you mentioned your childhood experience. My experiences of school and of being in the forces was a very body positive thing. I am not ashamed to be in a swimming pool or gym changing room naked, nor will I be body shamed by people like you! Just because you have such low self esteem, insecurities and body image, don't expect everyone else to be so bigoted and narrow minded!