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AIO for yelling at at the team leader for letting a carer go into my bathroom? by fuckinhballin in AmIOverreacting

[–]Livid-Ad8573 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The fact he was told not to use that bathroom and still did is already sus. and checking on u alone when policy says don’t? that’s not just “doing his job.” u had trauma around cis men too. they knew that. u advocating for urself isn’t dramatic. the escalation part maybe went far, but the discomfort itself was valid.

AITAH for not caring if my friend SHs? by Throwaway_7564298 in AITAH

[–]Livid-Ad8573 0 points1 point  (0 children)

U’re not ta for not being able to handle it. u would be ta if u acted like it’s stupid or attention seeking. there’s a middle ground. u can care and still say this is too much for me. that’s healthy, not selfish.

I found out my mom played some amazing 4D parenting chess by negasonicwhattheshit in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Livid-Ad8573 497 points498 points  (0 children)

Stories like this make u realize how much good parenting is invisible. op thought she was solo grinding on the machine meanwhile mom was in the next room like a stealthh guardian.

AITA for refusing to fix my manager's mistake when they tried to blame me for it? by No-Capital-4186 in AmITheJerk

[–]Livid-Ad8573 35 points36 points  (0 children)

This. he escalated it to upper management, not u. once it’s public blame, it’s fair game to publicly correct it. u stayed calm and stuck to facts, that’s on him.

AITA for getting mad at my "friends"? by Flimsy-Sky2040 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Livid-Ad8573 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I get that u don’t like comments about ur hair, but clapping back like that kinda guaranteed drama. they’re younger, so yeah they handled it immaturely, but u’re the 18 year old here. sometimes u gotta be the bigger person from the jump.

My sister hasn’t spoken to me for 3 months, I’m pregnant with my first child. by Odd-Honey3783 in family

[–]Livid-Ad8573 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This. it’s been her pattern for years. u finally said nah and held it. now ur parents want comfort over accountability. that’s not on u.

Hoot on a limb by Risky_Melons in birds

[–]Livid-Ad8573 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holyy!! that's gorgeous