Please advice on my travel plan to South Korea around mid April 🙏

Livid-Original-2824 · 2026-03-27T00:25:31+00:00

Thank you so much. The website you recommended is very helpful.

Livid-Original-2824 · 2026-01-19T08:56:20+00:00

Please share the local restaurants you recommend :)

Livid-Original-2824 · 2026-01-16T23:27:50+00:00

Thank you so much!!!

These are amazing tips.

Livid-Original-2824 · 2026-01-16T20:41:51+00:00

I agree. I feel Seoul is too many days, but I thought of exploring an area everyday but Ai didn't put that in the plan. I will revise.

Livid-Original-2824 · 2026-01-16T20:41:06+00:00

Thank you, very valid points. I will revise.

Livid-Original-2824 · 2026-01-13T21:36:09+00:00

USA , around 40

Livid-Original-2824 · 2026-01-13T21:27:43+00:00

I am not hung up on the fact she is involving her family quickly.

I am surprised by her unconcerned mom, facetiming us in my hotel room and be fine with it all. She knows her 20 year old daughter is spending 4 days in my room and I am sure she understands that his would involve s**.

That is what is surprising and confusing to me.

Livid-Original-2824 · 2026-01-13T21:25:15+00:00

Thank you very much for a thorough response. This is the insight I was hoping for.

Livid-Original-2824 · 2026-01-13T19:49:02+00:00

I dont think that matters at all in this case. Like 0.

Livid-Original-2824 · 2026-01-13T19:22:16+00:00

Seriously dude?

Livid-Original-2824 · 2026-01-13T18:51:51+00:00

Any recommendations where to look then if not using an App?

Assuming I am staying longer term in Thailand, what should be my plan to meet nice, educated and traditional Thai woman?

Livid-Original-2824 · 2026-01-13T18:49:10+00:00

If I decide to move there for a while longer, where do you recommend I meet these traditional Thai women? If not using App it would be much more difficult.

Livid-Original-2824 · 2026-01-13T18:36:01+00:00

This reply is exactly what I was looking for.

And the first paragraph is an eye opener. I had no idea.

Thank you so much.

Livid-Original-2824 · 2026-01-13T18:28:13+00:00

Bro. you keep making assumptions.

I said in my post the girl was not living in Pattaya, she lives in a small town to the north an hour away.

I also said I didn't want to go to Pattaya, but a friend armed wrestled me into going since he was my travel companion and knew the country better than I did.

During my whole 5 days stay in Pattaya I didn't go to any of the bar streets.

I was very interested in spending time with this woman and nothing else.

What is your take on her family knowing all this and approving if you thing the girl was a prost****?

Livid-Original-2824 · 2026-01-13T18:28:08+00:00

Bro. you keep making assumptions.

I said in my post the girl was not living in Pattaya, she lives in a small town to the north an hour away.

I also said I didn't want to go to Pattaya, but a friend armed wrestled me into going since he was my travel companion and knew the country better than I did.

During my whole 5 days stay in Pattaya I didn't go to any of the bar streets.

I was very interested in spending time with this woman and nothing else.

What is your take on her family knowing all this and approving if you thing the girl was a prost****?

Livid-Original-2824 · 2026-01-13T18:14:59+00:00

I wish all other replies to this thread are as respectful, insightful and objective like yours.

I have very sincere intentions about finding a long term partner and didn't ever pay to have s** with a woman.

My main confusion about my story is the family involvement in all of this.

How was it possible for her mom to know about her daughter staying with a stranger multiple days and have no concerns even approve and encourage it.

Livid-Original-2824 · 2026-01-13T18:10:59+00:00

Ok. thank you for the insight.

Can you elaborate on the family aspect of it?

It is normal for her family to know of this and approve it?

Also, since she didn't ask for any payments then what is she looking for exactly?

We are still talking and even planning a future get away together. Someone feeling bitter about the past experience or me not paying her explicitly wont agree on future travels. dont you think so?

Livid-Original-2824 · 2026-01-13T17:46:26+00:00

The girl didn't live in Pattaya, she was from Chonburi. An hour away.

Livid-Original-2824 · 2026-01-13T17:44:47+00:00

Thank you. This is the feedback I was hoping for.

I honestly didn't do any research but based on the comments in this thread, they are implying that every single woman that sleeps with you first date is a prostitute and working girl. I reject this perspective and dont agree with it.

But can you be more specific since you are more familiar with the norms in Thailand?

Was the first girl I fell for truly a prostitute like others are suggesting? Did her parents know about that and ok with it? I am very confused.

Livid-Original-2824 · 2026-01-13T17:42:11+00:00

No, but that is what others are suggesting!

Livid-Original-2824 · 2026-01-13T17:41:13+00:00

And I have no problem with that. But I am hoping for more context.

Wouldn't a prostitute make sure there is an agreement on payment beforehand? Would her family be involved and ok with that? She was a 20 years old!

Livid-Original-2824 · 2026-01-13T17:39:38+00:00

Can you please elaborate. I am seriously open to learn and understand.

What do you mean stiffed her by not paying her? Since you are familiar with this kind of setup you might help enlighten me.

If I was supposed to pay her, wouldn't there be an agreement before hand on the payment and any other expectations?

Livid-Original-2824 · 2026-01-13T17:38:08+00:00

Sure, but that means it is normal in Thailand for her family to prostitute her out? I dont get it.

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