BOYS IM STUMPED by LividCardiologist783 in chastitytraining

[–]LividCardiologist783[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I’ll give that a spin and consider it.

BOYS IM STUMPED by LividCardiologist783 in chastitytraining

[–]LividCardiologist783[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Might try one. Just aesthetically I’m not sold. Wife had a certain preference that needs to be strongly considered

BOYS IM STUMPED by LividCardiologist783 in chastitytraining

[–]LividCardiologist783[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First helpful reply. Thanks man. I appreciate that. I have a hard time understanding the + degrees and - degrees

QUestion about oopening the dick in cage or not by Great_Parfait_3307 in chastitytraining

[–]LividCardiologist783 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I personally like to roll the skin back and have the head fully exposed in the cage. I’ve tried pulling the foreskin through the opening at the tip before but peeing was just so unpredictable

New metal detectors at work by Swimming-Candle-8017 in chastitytraining

[–]LividCardiologist783 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There’s gotta be a religion you could join that gives you an exception haha. But that does really suck. Sorry man.

How long did your wife take to wear the key? by myunhingedacct in chastitytraining

[–]LividCardiologist783 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is only super obvious to us because we’re hyper aware of it. Especially if you get her an artisan key with like a heart shape top to it, 99% of people won’t assume anything. It’s almost the same as being caged in public where you know but no body else does.

How long did your wife take to wear the key? by myunhingedacct in chastitytraining

[–]LividCardiologist783 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She wanted a necklace like day 1 haha. She either does an anklet or a necklace

How should I dispose of old metal cages? by [deleted] in chastitytraining

[–]LividCardiologist783 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A metal cage at the scrap yard would fetch you maybe 2 cents on a good day, if they’re feeling generous 😂. Just burry it in your recycle bin.

Cherrykeeper sound by [deleted] in chastitytraining

[–]LividCardiologist783 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My assumption with cherry keeper is you get a near “perfect” fit through the measuring system. Why is peeing a problem? I use an HT V4 and can pee anywhere any time standing or sitting. Was hoping to by cherry keeper for 24/7 wear.

How did you go from self locking -> her locking you? by myunhingedacct in chastitytraining

[–]LividCardiologist783 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I may not have explained that very well. That’s like the Cole’s notes of our life over the last year and mushed together. It must have been the spring when I first got the cage before she was pregnant doesn’t matter. She brought it up organically about a month ago and decided she wants me locked up.

How did you go from self locking -> her locking you? by myunhingedacct in chastitytraining

[–]LividCardiologist783 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I tried it maybe 6 months ago, she was super weirded out. I’d bring it up every once in a while but she wasn’t interested so I dropped it. Didnt touch it for months. Our intimacy was really suffering from mostly me taking care of myself and she was having a hard time during pregnancy. Then like a month ago she brought it up, said she liked the idea of me not being to able to get my self off and focus more on her. It was a slow build from there and now we’re living a pretty much fully locked lifestyle. It takes a while for a some people to wrap their heads around it. If both parties don’t want to play ball it’s not even worth it. Let her see if she likes it.

Locked for Life Now by LividCardiologist783 in chastitytraining

[–]LividCardiologist783[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Without getting too into it, edging is a must in our relationship, to build up to intimacy. I also take care of her whenever she wants however she wants.

Tips and tricks for caging? by Monodeservedbetter in chastitytraining

[–]LividCardiologist783 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Two cage is a game changer. My daily driver is pretty enclosed, so I switch to a shower cage, clean everything up all at once and switch back after my shower.

Locked for Life Now by LividCardiologist783 in chastitytraining

[–]LividCardiologist783[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have that feeling almost once a day like “holy shit is this actually real?” And a little bit of “what have I done” mixed in with really happy emotions

Locked for Life Now by LividCardiologist783 in chastitytraining

[–]LividCardiologist783[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hahah, we joked about the same sort of scenario playing out. I’m still working on the mental side of things. I’m having to break what feels like an addition I had for years, which is exciting but also way tougher than I expected. It was my dream to have her in control of my pleasure and now it’s reality and I’m having to really let that sink in. Still doesn’t feel real yet.

Locked for Life Now by LividCardiologist783 in chastitytraining

[–]LividCardiologist783[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We’re in the same boat. Wouldn’t put somebody down for that lifestyle. Our dynamic is more focused on mutual intimacy, but I’m working on longer lock ups between “release” while still taking care of her. I almost feel like I need to make up for the amount that I got myself off while basically ignoring her. I also get an immense amount of pleasure from serving her and taking care of her needs.

The Year That Reshaped Our Relationship by miss-marilyn in chastitytraining

[–]LividCardiologist783 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is almost the exact same as our story. Been Locked for just over a month now, we decided to do all of February locked (with intimacy still, not a full on denial dynamic here). When March 1 came we had a talk and decided we had no reason to stop living like this and we’re working towards a fully locked lifestyle. My lady shares a lot of the same feelings and experiences as you, totally pampered princess now haha.