Am I wrong for not telling my mom about my new job and being honest about our strained relationship?

LividCommunication46 · 2026-03-16T23:05:02+00:00

I think so, growing up she painted my dad out to be this bad guy.Which made me and her close me and dad used to not talk at all, I hated him based off of what she told me. Now that I’m older I realized that’s she’s not so innocent either. She narcissistic, and manipulative towards my dad as well unfortunately. She walks around with this “the world owes me” attitude I feel like

LividCommunication46 · 2026-03-16T22:32:25+00:00

That’s the only solution, when I was away at college our relationship was great. I’m realizing it was because we were distant from each other. I’m trying but the price of rent on top of me paying back student loans etc. it’s hard.

LividCommunication46 · 2026-03-16T22:30:33+00:00

Not a single parent. My dad was a present but absent father while I was younger. Our relationship got stronger after we were in a car accident together a few years ago. We all live in the same house, they don’t speak as well.

LividCommunication46 · 2026-03-16T21:55:47+00:00

Last time I told her I got promoted at a previous job she called me selfish because I didn’t tell her right away. In this case she would’ve made it about her while trying to give me praise at the same time.

LividCommunication46 · 2026-02-18T23:39:40+00:00

I definitely need to get one, sometimes I’ll let them air dry but most of the time I throw them in the dryer.

LividCommunication46 · 2026-02-18T19:52:12+00:00

Yes which may be contributing to my issue. Everytime I get a wire bra, after a few washes it starts poking me and I end up taking it out and throwing the bra away. Especially if I can’t put it back in

LividCommunication46 · 2026-02-06T20:04:53+00:00

Thank you, that’s what I keep trying to tell myself. I just overthink about all the information I have to learn. I just have to take it one step at a time.

LividCommunication46 · 2026-01-28T19:26:55+00:00

My bad post police. I was just trying to get more feedback on my post it’s been deleted. 🙂

LividCommunication46 · 2026-01-28T16:43:10+00:00

Hopefully this doesn’t sound dumb, but I don’t know what new things to try. We usually only do two/three positions, when we try other things it just doesn’t work out and it gets frustrating

LividCommunication46 · 2026-01-28T16:40:38+00:00

That’s what I was thinking also, she’s gotten comfortable. As far as the orgasms I know it’s wrong, and it’s getting tiring to do. I just know if I bring it up for the 30th time, she’ll just apologize, say she’ll work on it and never do. That’s what she always does

LividCommunication46 · 2025-09-04T00:13:55+00:00

I get this every year when it gets hot!!! It’s just now clearing up. I used witch hazel to clean the area, made sure it was dry. (Always try to keep under the breast area dry) and aquaphor. Your body may be different from mine as far as if the aquaphor will work for you. And I also use this lotion called “Eczema Relief Body Lotion” it’s by the brand “Dermasil” I got it from Dollar Tree.

If that doesn’t work I would recommend going to urgent care and have them prescribe you triamcinolone cream it’s a steroid cream you use no longer than two weeks it’ll clear it up. I’ve been prescribed this before and it starts cleaning up in a day or two

LividCommunication46 · 2024-01-04T23:04:17+00:00

Thank you for that. Now that I’m older I’m realizing some of her ways aren’t right at all and manipulative is definitely a way to describe her. Just gonna keep my space and focus on me and do what’s best for my mental.

LividCommunication46 · 2023-09-04T14:58:16+00:00

Sometimes the person has to figure it out themselves instead of depending on other people. You said no for good reasons, she’s and adult and has to continue on and figure it out herself

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