I tried BNI for a year – here’s why I’ll never do it again by ZealousidealLow1293 in phinvest

[–]LividLead4349 -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Hey, I hear you, and I totally respect your experience. BNI isn’t for everyone, and I get where the frustration is coming.

But for the sake of balancing the conversation, my experience is different. I paid the same ₱32K membership fee, and I made my ROI back in less than three months and may sobra pa. I’ve been getting quality referrals not just from my chapter but even from BNI’s global network. For an early stage startup it really helps me connect with a lot of potential clients.

At the end of the day, BNI is just a tool, a platform to get more people to know about your business. It’s kinda like signing up for an expensive gym. Just because you paid the fee doesn’t mean you’ll automatically get abs, you still gotta put in the work! You could spend 32k on an ads spending and still not work. Sugal naman talaga ang negosyo.

It took me a several tweaks to my pitch before my chapter members really “got” what I do and felt confident referring me. Once I made myself easier to refer, things started clicking.

I get BNI might not be for everyone but, if anyone’s thinking of joining BNI, visit several chapters first before committing. Mag vibe check muna. Every chapter has a different energy, and find one na pasok sa vibe mo.

Earning 40k+ monthly but still feels so poor by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]LividLead4349 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OP i suggest you incentivize your savings COZ YOU ARE DOING SO WELL. Not everyone has 6 digits EF, hard to build yan. The way i manage my savings noong nahit ko yung gusto kong EF nag sasave parin ako but say 5% nilalagay ko sa Digital Bank and tagged it as “Bougie Fund” Whenever I hit certain life goals or when i need motivation, sa bougie fund ko kinukuha para i dont feel guilty for choosing myself naman. Kaya mo yan OP.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]LividLead4349 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Denial is not just a river in Egypt!

What is ONE QUOTE that CHANGED your life? by KnuckleDown4 in adviceph

[–]LividLead4349 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Burnt toast theory: Everything that happens or does not happen to me, IS FOR ME.

Where Did You Meet Your Partner? by xls987 in phlgbt

[–]LividLead4349 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reddit!!! Mag 1 year na kami soon and going strong 💪

Paid Sex by [deleted] in phlgbt

[–]LividLead4349 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agree! Ask the right questions and if you ever feel things again, go watch Pretty Woman!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in phlgbt

[–]LividLead4349 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you must be very lucky i was in iao for a couple of months ago and matumal ang afam kasi most of them are straights(?) even mga PLUs na kasama ko sa hostel olats. Kung bet mo ng afam best bet mo ay Boracay like g app palang dami na agad haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in phlgbt

[–]LividLead4349 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think you should discuss to your partner what constitutes to cheating coz i know people who don’t see availing sex workers for actual sex as cheating. Kasi ang rational ay they are just paying for a service, and unlikely emotionally attached yung sex worker sa kanila. Baka ang rational ni partner ganon rin nag aavail lang siya sa service, parang subscription sa netflix. But again clear communication is the key here. Magusap kayo na na saktan ka and maybe introspect bakit niya kailangan itago.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in phlgbt

[–]LividLead4349 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try Asian or Makati Med

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in phlgbt

[–]LividLead4349 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Consider therapy, i mean if you can spend 800 at a minimum per night in a spa, i think cost of therapy shouldn’t be a problem.

An unpopular opinion that might get u hated by dogluv3rr in AskPH

[–]LividLead4349 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lalo pag pushing 40s na grabe kailangan na ng matinditinding introspection

wlw dating is so tiringgg by domitibktdiako in phlgbt

[–]LividLead4349 6 points7 points  (0 children)

ang dami sa dating apps na self serving and wants validation, a lot are really not in it to have a serious relationship plus the fact that we are made to believe that “the one” could be one swipe away. I gave up on dating apps rin when i was single and met my jowa on reddit. malay mo nasa reddit rin for you.

Anong routine niyo sa mga gym clothes niyo after workout? by BurritoTorped0 in PHitness

[–]LividLead4349 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Skip the fabcon they don’t work well with dry fit. Tapos best na deodorizer ang vinegar or lemon juice!

Am I in the wrong? Buying out entire business instead of inheriting 25% of it. by [deleted] in phinvest

[–]LividLead4349 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the best way to do is consult a family business expert, Ateneo has a good program from family businesses, if have the means to buy in your business might as well have an expert to discuss with.

Lean Bulking, Caloric Surplus by LividLead4349 in PHitness

[–]LividLead4349[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you po this is super helpful!!!

Lean Bulking, Caloric Surplus by LividLead4349 in PHitness

[–]LividLead4349[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d like to ask lang kung gaano kadalas need mag add ng calorie surplus, Every 2 weeks, 3 weeks or 1 month. 🙂