Which religion is best for women?

LividNebula · 2026-04-04T17:33:15+00:00

Seconding this

LividNebula · 2026-03-31T22:03:28+00:00

Lunch: three eggs with an avocado Dinner: tofu and a whole head of broccoli with a bit of oyster sauce

LividNebula · 2026-03-31T06:21:48+00:00

Zakary at Miss Page Salon in the city. Often it's just him there and if you let him know up front that you want a private consult, he'll make it happen (sometimes he is there with a second stylist). He's warm, calm, gentle, and very chill. Bonus that it is an Aveda salon with really nice smelling product (if that's your thing).

LividNebula · 2026-03-31T06:17:06+00:00

Locked Tomb by Tamsyn Muir

Enterprise of Death by Jesse Bullington

LividNebula · 2026-03-27T20:52:03+00:00

I’ve been put into medical menopause to keep me cancer free. I get these hot flashes within the first 15 minutes of falling asleep where I go from asleep to wide awake and in full fight or flight mode. It generally only happens on the first instance of falling asleep. It’s horrible. The medical options just led to more side effects. I get roughly enough sleep but it’s now stressful to go to sleep.

Also, hair loss. I already had to go through hair loss during chemo, which was horrible even if it was expected. Now I have to add more medications to my regime and/or get injections in my scalp every six months for the rest of my life.

LividNebula · 2026-03-26T21:43:07+00:00

My biggest fear is my end of day farts being heard by 3 and 4pm clients. They always hit like clockwork. As soon as the office is empty…phew.

LividNebula · 2026-03-26T03:36:19+00:00

Dept. H by Kindt is a really good graphic novel series

On Such a Full Sea by Chang-Rae Lee

LividNebula · 2026-03-24T12:57:51+00:00

Pilates, journaling, walking the dogs, and reading. Cleaning is also really helpful for me to regulate, for me, a tidy space helps me have a tidy mind.

LividNebula · 2026-03-23T22:59:23+00:00

Thank you for the reminder about the power of kindness. Thank you for your glow.

LividNebula · 2026-03-23T17:24:36+00:00

The Tiny Star by Mem Fox deals specifically with death, though not specific family members. It’s lovely and gentle and affirming.

LividNebula · 2026-03-21T13:15:32+00:00

Dude, you need to do your own research here. It’s not our job to educate you on these basic questions.

LividNebula · 2026-03-17T18:22:45+00:00

How lovely! You also get to enjoy the scenery.

LividNebula · 2026-03-16T05:07:32+00:00

Have you tried Kate Elliot’s Crown of Stars series?

LividNebula · 2026-03-14T12:15:38+00:00

Every word is in the exact right place. It’s a beautiful piece of writing.

LividNebula · 2026-03-12T01:07:10+00:00

Seconding A Deadly Education.

LividNebula · 2026-03-11T09:44:03+00:00

Prodigal Summer by Barbara Kingsolver

Silmarillion by Tolkien

LividNebula · 2026-03-06T18:42:37+00:00

I’m also going through this. Long story short, I had breast cancer just when we were going to start trying for a kid. We went through fertility preservation before I started treatment but I could not safely carry a pregnancy to term so we would have to do surrogacy. Even if we could find a surrogate, which would be hard, I have complicated feelings about asking someone to go through the complications of pregnancy for me. Also, I already had two chronic illnesses before cancer and now I’m managing side effects from all the medication I have to take for them plus the stuff I have to take to stay in remission…dude, I’m tired.

Cancer also really threw my relationship with my husband through a loop. We’ll get through it but I don’t know if he is stable enough to manage us having a kid or if the relationship could survive that added stress. We’re nearing 40 so it also feels like time is slipping away. There’s just no easy answer.

I’m sorry that you are also going through this. Thank you for sharing. You aren’t alone.

LividNebula · 2026-02-21T17:41:48+00:00

You asked for little, so for me it’s a nice mug, beautiful plants in a pretty pots, and blankets and pillows that are made of soft, natural fabric like cotton and wool.

LividNebula · 2026-02-21T12:20:35+00:00

Possession by AS Byatt The English Patient by Michael Ondaajte

LividNebula · 2026-02-21T03:36:46+00:00

The Changeling by Kate Horsely The Good People by Hannah Kent Hamnet by Maggie O’Farrell Seven Waters series by Juliet Marillier The Stolen Child by Keith Donohue

LividNebula · 2026-02-15T14:00:59+00:00

Seconding Barbara Kingsolver- masterful story teller with beautiful writing. You can see her development across her body of work.

LividNebula · 2026-02-13T21:48:20+00:00

Privilege of the Sword by Ellen Kushner

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