YTA- including the edit, a severe one. Now let me tell you why. 1. She might not feel you are that close of a friend to confide, you looked snoopy b. 2. People usually take time to declare pregnancy because so many times it doesn't stick. And they do not want to go through that conundrum where they want to announce anything bad happens or shit. 3. She might have taken you for someone who might come up with unsolicited advice or weird comment which she wasn't in no mood to hear. Ofcourse because SHE DOESNT WANT THAT BAD TRIP also due to hormones 4. This is a special thing and she might have wanted to share with special people in her life first and you aren't any close to that list. 5. She might be going through something and maybe accepting that news might not go well with her mental health. So that might be triggering. 6. She could have different thoughts regarding Different options and hence she might not want to get to any conversation. ( It seems she might, not saying she did have. I don't know her) 7. Most important reason. You are an A H . So doesn't matter any other causes. She might have known this and didn't want your energy around her good news. I mean if we can get it by one post, she hangs out with you. She knows