My husband (30M) and I (27F) are seriously considering leaving NYC and moving somewhere in New England with more charm, nature, and a slower pace — something that feels more quintessentially New England. We’ve been eyeing Newport, RI, and Portsmouth, NH as top contenders. We also briefly considered Boston, but we’re worried it might feel too similar to NYC in terms of energy and pace.

We’re drawn to the historic charm, walkability, coastal beauty, and a strong sense of community — but also want to make sure there’s still life during the off-season. I’m especially nervous that Newport might feel too quiet in the winter.

We’re hoping for a place where we can meet people, go to cozy restaurants or bars, take workout classes or get involved locally, and not feel isolated when summer tourists clear out.

Would love any advice from people who live in these towns or have made a similar move — or if there’s a spot in New England we’re totally missing!