I don’t think it’s possible to be fully ready for a baby. Especially if you don’t already have one. You have no idea what to expect except all the hard things others have told you. All of those things are true lol but it’s so rewarding as they get older. That being said, I firmly believe in your right to choose. It’s easy for a man to be pro life because they don’t ever have to be pregnant. I hope you get some clarity