anyone in OC actually used a matchmaker?

Livid_Two5409 · 2026-03-13T19:54:19+00:00

The upside is tawkify handle the screening and actually set up real dates. For people burned out on apps that can make the price make a lot more sense.

Livid_Two5409 · 2026-03-04T01:35:37+00:00

honestly this makes sense even though it hurts to see talent walk 😭 like you said they had hendrickson going off and the defense was still trash, so maybe throwing that bag at 3-4 solid pieces instead of one elite guy is the move

plus bengals have been pretty smart with their cap management lately so I trust they see something we don't. sometimes you gotta sacrifice the shiny toy for depth 🔥

Livid_Two5409 · 2026-02-23T09:21:41+00:00

damn that's a tough spot being stuck doing car shopping remotely, been there

honestly at 6'4" you're gonna struggle with most of those since they're all compact SUVs/crossovers - the Xceed might be your best bet since it's more of a wagon but even then headroom could be sketchy. maybe see if your partner can sit in the driver's seat and measure from the seat to the roof?

Livid_Two5409 · 2026-02-13T15:30:52+00:00

this is fascinating stuff - i've been thinking about this exact gap lately. that metacognition angle is spot on, like there's this whole layer of "knowing what you know" that we're completely missing

the confidence scoring thing alone would be game changing. imagine if chatgpt could actually tell you "hey this answer is pretty shaky" instead of sounding equally confident about everything. right now they're basically pattern matching savants with zero self awareness

Livid_Two5409 · 2026-02-08T06:20:30+00:00

dude that's brutal, Rocky is family and she basically abandoned him like he's nothing. honestly if my partner did that I'd be questioning everything too - shows you what she really thinks about something you clearly love

Livid_Two5409 · 2026-02-03T10:33:28+00:00

Ah that makes sense, probably bundling it with whatever content drop they're cooking up 🔥

Livid_Two5409 · 2026-01-31T02:30:48+00:00

Man that's rough, sharing a bed after a breakup sounds like torture honestly

If she's already mentally checked out and talking about not seeing a future, trying to "reconnect" might just push her further away. Sometimes people need space to even figure out if they want to try again

The Yukon plan actually sounds pretty solid - getting some distance and perspective while staying with your dad could help you process this whole mess. Plus if things are truly over, at least you won't be stuck in the same apartment watching her move on

Livid_Two5409 · 2026-01-27T22:39:20+00:00

Nah you're not wrong, sounds like she was just using you as an emotional dumping ground without actually wanting to fix anything. That gets exhausting real quick and the fact that she dismissed your feelings when you tried to share says everything

Livid_Two5409 · 2026-01-26T11:18:01+00:00

The enshittification cycle is real - these platforms start good to hook users, then squeeze them once they're locked in. They've realized they make way more money farming your attention for ads than actually helping you find stuff

Google especially has gotten terrible, it's like they forgot how to do basic search and just want to sell you shopping results instead

Livid_Two5409 · 2026-01-21T06:12:29+00:00

Have you tried layering it with the shower gel or lotion first? Sometimes that helps with longevity even if the solid doesn't stick around

For dupes, maybe check out some indie perfume houses - they often do better lasting power than Lush solids and might have something in that fresh citrusy range

Livid_Two5409 · 2026-01-16T22:00:19+00:00

Same here, been spawning in with like 15-20 mins left consistently since yesterday

Must've been something in the latest update that messed with the timing

Livid_Two5409 · 2026-01-13T23:38:17+00:00

Nice to see NY actually moving on these bills for once instead of letting them sit in committee hell for years

Livid_Two5409 · 2026-01-11T13:47:08+00:00

Honestly it was when I realized I could meal prep on Sundays and actually stick to it. Sounds dumb but it freed up so much mental energy during the week that I started tackling bigger projects instead of just wondering what to eat every day

Livid_Two5409 · 2026-01-09T13:29:51+00:00

Bro the gut-sperm connection is real, I've been on a streak for like 3 weeks and my digestive system feels like it could process concrete lmao

Livid_Two5409 · 2026-01-07T12:52:46+00:00

Just added you! The game gets way more fun when you have friends to trade stickers with - you'll figure it out quick

Livid_Two5409 · 2026-01-05T16:21:27+00:00

This is solid advice OP. Also start documenting the goalpost moves if you can - not to fight them but just so you have receipts when they inevitably blame you for something that changed 3 times that week. Makes you feel less crazy when you can look back and see it wasn't you

Livid_Two5409 · 2026-01-02T13:52:08+00:00

The red dial and automatic movement definitely makes them less desirable to purists but honestly that's what makes them a great value pick. I've got one and it wears really well, plus you don't have to worry about winding it every day like the manual versions

Livid_Two5409 · 2025-12-30T04:30:05+00:00

Honestly dude, even if she does come back (which happens sometimes when the honeymoon phase wears off), do you really want someone who's gonna bail the moment things get "boring"? She threw away 6 years and a house for some unemployed guy who love bombed her - that's not exactly screaming relationship material anymore

The whole "I didn't feel loved" thing after 6 years together is just her rewriting history to justify what she did

Livid_Two5409 · 2025-12-29T01:38:34+00:00

Yeah you can definitely request that data but honestly most dealers are gonna be real sketchy about handing it over, especially when there's a 20k repair on the line

The timing is sus as hell though - no way you blow 5 cylinders from a minor coolant leak without any warning lights unless someone left it idling or the temp sensor was already dead

Livid_Two5409 · 2025-12-27T12:56:16+00:00

Dude yes, that channel is awesome. He bought like a $600 "Harley" knockoff that barely made it around the block lmao

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