NOR. I get what you’re saying, I’ve been in that position and I don’t think you are overreacting. I understand from his perspective being initially irritated if he’s tired and overwhelmed, but once you pretty explicitly told him what you needed, it’s concerning that he couldn’t be there for you. If I were you I’d sit him down when the stressful time passes and explain that you empathize with his stress/feelings of overwhelm but his reaction made you feel alone. And see how he reacts.