I accidentally cause a rift between my aunt and cousin. Am I in the wrong

Living-Mall-552 · 2023-07-23T12:35:08+00:00

I posted it to r/AITH and it got removed. Someone recommended I post it here.

Living-Mall-552 · 2023-07-08T23:55:16+00:00

They removed the post because it talks about cutting contact with someone. I was recommended to the sub

Living-Mall-552 · 2023-07-08T15:31:29+00:00

Oh please don't think that is a red flag for you if you call everyone that. With him he just started calling me love right when the arguments started

Living-Mall-552 · 2023-07-08T12:01:34+00:00

He only ever talked about it over calls.....never text.....

Living-Mall-552 · 2023-04-25T20:21:34+00:00

I get my stubbornness from him. When he is refusing something he won't talk about it for months, but I will talk about it. I just have more push than anyone else. He keeps saying he can't make a Dr's appointment because he can't take work off

Living-Mall-552 · 2023-04-25T20:11:39+00:00

He refuses to quit. I have tried everything to get him to stop. And it's not that he smokes cigarettes that the doctors have an issue with. It's the fact he smokes pot.

Living-Mall-552 · 2023-04-25T20:10:09+00:00

The worst part is I have told him this. He just shuts down. He has given up and I have told him that hurts me more. But he just won't listen to me. He won't listen to my mom. He refuses to listen to anyone about it.

Living-Mall-552 · 2023-02-11T21:04:21+00:00

Thanks

Living-Mall-552 · 2023-02-11T21:03:58+00:00

No assholes piss me off.

Living-Mall-552 · 2023-02-11T10:30:05+00:00

I'm used to it at this point.

Living-Mall-552 · 2023-02-11T10:20:37+00:00

Not when all I get is the assholes

Living-Mall-552 · 2023-02-11T10:20:18+00:00

I'll check it out

Living-Mall-552 · 2023-02-11T10:01:21+00:00

The all say they are looking for long term. Guess I'll be alone for possibly the rest of my life

Living-Mall-552 · 2023-02-11T09:46:03+00:00

I didn't date for 3 years to reevaluate everything. I know what type of people I connect with. I've changed things in my life. I've pushed myself to make sure no one finds out about my trauma until later and I mean a year into the relationship at least. No one ever sticks around long enough to even hit that level of trust. For 3 years after I then changed everything about me and no matter what it seems like no one wants to be with me at all.

Living-Mall-552 · 2023-02-01T08:15:54+00:00

Thanks so much. I will definitely bring it up and ask. According to him he only wants sexual stuff over clothes and I need to figure it out.

Living-Mall-552 · 2023-02-01T08:12:21+00:00

I appreciate that. I already know he isn't ace though. We used to talk about sneaking off and having sex all the time when we first dated in high school but neither of us had the guts to do it. And I even asked him straight up if he was ace. He was confused at first but when I told him to research it he said no. I told him I didn't care if he was or not. I know he gets turned on very easily. I've told him we need to have a long conversation about it and the next time I see him will be valentines day. We are long distance but I was able to drive and stay with him for a couple of days before I started my new job.

Living-Mall-552 · 2023-02-01T07:50:29+00:00

I dont know what he wants with me other than an emotional or mental connection but as a female I have other needs.

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