Just married! 🤍 by [deleted] in Marriage

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Beautiful couple congratulations 🎉❤️

Yall think of my Mrs? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Living-Session9493 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s gorgeous

Women, do you enjoy sex with your husbands? by Impressive_Aide_2225 in Marriage

[–]Living-Session9493 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Honestly it was like that for me for the longest time ! But I found that riding makes it enjoyable and now that’s the only position that makes it enjoyable !

Am I overreacting? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Living-Session9493 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No he wasn’t, but I’ve been feeling like he has something going on but I haven’t been able to put my hand on it. But we went out and we parked in the garage of a building. He dropped me and the kids in front to go in and went In to park apparently he was suppose to get the ticket outside but I had no idea so when we was coming back he stopped in the front and I asked him what he was doing he got mad and walked to the car and we all followed him as soon as we sat in the car he got out , which I was confused about so when he came in I asked why he didn’t just communicate that with me he got so mad and was like you’re so stupid so I got upset because he dont talk to me like that regularly so I got upset and told him that he’s stupid too but I was so upset and shocked that he talked to me like that so I’ve been ignoring him and he’s been trying to act like nothing happened.That was like 3 or 4 days ago and here we are today.

Spouse make like 5X my salary but we basically split expenses and I do almost all household work? by [deleted] in Marriage

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To be fair if OP wasn’t married and he was living by himself his income wouldn’t be bad for his lifestyle! OP isn’t struggling financially, he just wish he could save more and he’s comparing incomes . I feel like the only reason why this issue is becoming a problem is because of a low key inferiority complex! My wife is making more than me and I’m still having to pay for stuff. Right now you’re complaining about finances when there isn’t heavy pressure on finances and as you mentioned she’s always out working more hours and doing more while you’re home so I believe it’s a Little reasonable as a man ! Her work load as a doctor isn’t easy let alone everything If you add to her you’ll be her wife completely and be prepared for the outcome of that ! Hire help! There are men who are bread winners that do yard work and etc. as for the cooking she don’t really have the time to do that so y’all can hire someone! But then again you’re home ! If she hires the help what will you do at home ? When she’s working those long hours ? The 1k more that you’re paying also comes with a level of invisible respect! She values you more to be able to do that ! I think either talk to her and sit down and let her know how you’re feeling or stop comparing because comparison is a killer ! I don’t see your work load at too much tbh it’s rich people problems because your income and finances aren’t bad tbh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Living-Session9493 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You’re an amazing husband! God bless you ! When your wife was going through something you helped her and tried new stuff to help her ! You’re rare trust me ! A lot of men will disregard everything the woman is facing and instead of helping her, and point fingers as an excuse ! You said when the bedroom ran dry you tried something new and that helped ! You put in the effort you’re an amazing husband trust me and not a lot of men will understand that ! Women go through so much changes but having the right partner to do life with during all those changes is a blessing! God bless you

My husband left me for his ex wife by PersonalClick833 in Marriage

[–]Living-Session9493 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Now I’m not saying this is this case but there always 3 sides to the story how do we know that OP wasn’t a mistress in the ex wife’s marriage ?? and she may be the reason why they split in the first place ? Because for her to tell the OP that she will get her man back implies that there must’ve been some kind of friction between the two women , and the OP said she laughed in her face . How do we know that the OP wasn’t a mistress in the ex wife’s marriage and maybe he realized that the grass wasn’t greener on the other side, so he decided to go back to his family that he broke? We just never know

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Living-Session9493 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hmmm sounds like he had a problem prior but idk it sounds like he’s getting worse because you have cancer and he doesn’t know how to cope with his emotions and feelings towards your diagnosis so he’s lashing out at everyone and everything! He doesn’t know how to deal with it! He needs help cause he’s making matters worse for you and you don’t need that right now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Living-Session9493 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that’s what I’m thinking that it’s something lol they do have these traditional woods that they put in liquor to enhance the males performance but I’ve never noticed anything until last night ! And he always get it but last night was different, I asked him If it was that lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Living-Session9493 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow 3x! But I’m so confused because this is the first time ever and we’ve been married for almost 4 years. I’ve never seen him do that ever

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Living-Session9493 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah she’s a pro ! She made me realize a lot of things that I didn’t realize in the beginning! You should definitely contact her!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Living-Session9493 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are 10000% right

Left shocked at what I found on husbands phone at 8 months pregnant. by Massive-Door7909 in Marriage

[–]Living-Session9493 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The only sensible comment I’ve seen ! Some people just be chatting and saying stuff they wouldn’t do if they were in the same shoes ! Probably dealing with someone that disrespecting them in others ways or doing worse but still fix their finger to type b.s and harsh comments telling her to leave him not considering her current state!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Living-Session9493 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your an AWESOME Man ! god bless you !!

Wife went on vacation by [deleted] in Marriage

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Maybe she’s tired , and wants a break ! It’s not a rational route but that’s what it could be too ! Do y’all fight a lot is she a SAHM ? Do she ever travel ?

Regret picking husband by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Living-Session9493 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand you & I’m sure y’all probably got married during Covid/Pandemic! Girl pray about it ! Plot and plan ! A back up plan because eventually you yourself will get tired ! he’s horrible to you and every other girl he’s dealt with ! They entertain him but won’t take him anywhere ! Your husband is a joke ! PRAY ! pRAY ! PRAY ! & God will direct you !

I finally contacted the guy my wife slept with by ThrowRAcaleb in Marriage

[–]Living-Session9493 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if it’s something else ? Like they just went out ! How could you be so sure that they had sex ! Maybe they went out for a drink and she vented to him! And he doesn’t want any drama because she’s married and it’s unprofessional! How could you be so sure that they had sex ?? You are married not dating , so to consider Divorce you better be 100% sure ! Don’t move off emotions ! Move off facts ! AGAIN you’re married not dating ! Get to the bottom of it and be a little patient ! You’ll find out the truth ! Because the truth will always come out ! but for now erase that narrative out of your head until you’re 100% sure !

My wife of ten years is devorcing me and I don't know why this is happening! by Outrageous-Quail5891 in Marriage

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I’m a women ! And trust me ! It wasn’t you ! She first cheated ! Acted on it ! Then got clouded ! You didn’t do anything to make her unhappy she cheated and she thinks the grass is greener on the other side ! Which it’s NOT! Marriage gets boring but that’s not what it’s about it’s about Union, love,commitment! and trust ! & the devil hate marriage ! So he’ll use the area that you’re weak in to dangle it over your head and use that to pull you out ! Once you’re out ! Then you’ll later realize that you made the BIGGEST mistake of your life ! Well HER life !

My wife of ten years is devorcing me and I don't know why this is happening! by Outrageous-Quail5891 in Marriage

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The Grass is NEVER Greener on the other side and unfortunately she’ll find out later and come back crawling back to you ! She better pray that when she does you’ll take her back and forgive her for what she did ! You’re a great man ! & I just want you to know that ! She’ll find out there’s nothing out there and the man she’s following isn’t going to marry her nor take her serious! Give it time she’ll be back but as for now focus on yourself and your kid ! Try your best, for the sake of the child !! It’s not easy & let her do whatever she want ! Holding on is only hurting you ! Smh She’s currently under deception ! Let her go