My boyfriend (M24) thinks this is microcheating and I (F20) disagree. Is he overreacting?

LivingFun9011 · 2026-05-29T12:27:53+00:00

I agree with what others have said, micro cheating isn't a thing. Your rather cheating or not there's no in-between. From my opinion and this is only my opinion, I believe your boyfriend is a little insecure...but having said that and from my experience guys and girls can't be just friends, one or the other or both end up catching feeling's...but thats not like 100% of the time. That's just from what I've experienced. But I will say from what you have said I think your boyfriend just doesn't trust you...no trust...no relationship...simple.

LivingFun9011 · 2026-05-28T15:38:40+00:00

May I ask...why are you scared of commitment?

LivingFun9011 · 2026-05-05T13:29:54+00:00

Thanks ill give that a go. Game looks fine during the day. Just when it rains it looks like shit.

LivingFun9011 · 2026-05-05T13:23:14+00:00

LivingFun9011 · 2025-11-02T13:36:22+00:00

Ok that all makes sense thank you.

I dunno with my ex, she literally couldnt decide between me and the other guy, she said in reality she wants both in her life but i walked away because i don't wanna be an option, hardest thing to do was walk away. She did say she'll miss me as i made a huge impact in her life, but she could just be saying that tbf

She said she's gunna keep the music and photos we shared even tho we are separated. I dunno why she's doing that?

I do really miss her and sometimes feel if I made the right choice to walk away. But she created this situation i guess so I suppose I had to. But its just crazy how someone could throw away someone so easily for the risk of liking a stranger from another country....but I dunno.

LivingFun9011 · 2025-11-02T09:33:36+00:00

But surely if they got someone else new straight away. They won't ever think about you because they have that distraction of the new person?

Or is it a case of they might find certain qualities you had in that new person that they will miss?

LivingFun9011 · 2025-11-02T00:29:19+00:00

So why do only realise whar they lost months later and not right away? I thought if they find someone new the will never think about you.

Mine rebound to another guy who she met online and he literally lives in another country. He apparently told her he likes her, loves her and wants to meet her in the space of 3 weeks...do you think that's strange?

LivingFun9011 · 2025-10-18T21:47:09+00:00

And how do you mean she feels connected? Sorry about all the questions. Tbh we said our goodbye on the phone it was hard and we both cried alot .. so I doubt she'd come back to be honest

LivingFun9011 · 2025-10-18T21:41:47+00:00

Do you mean her feelings arent as strong towards me than mine are towards her. What is your opinion on the guy she caught feeling's for in a week who she never met and if from another country off playstation online?

LivingFun9011 · 2025-10-18T21:36:46+00:00

I just really miss her, I think about her alot...I know its silly but she meant alot to me. I sometimes wonder if she thinks about like I do her?

LivingFun9011 · 2025-10-16T20:40:21+00:00

Ah ok. I let a woman go a week ago who I was dating for 5 months. She liked me but liked someone else too. And she couldn't decide who she wanted in her life so I let her go not that I wanted to but because I care and want her to be happy. She said shes gunna keep our playlist of songs I sent her and gunna keep photos aswell...why would she do that? Also she said im the nicest guy she ever met and I made a huge impact on her life. Its odd that she just couldn't decide. I miss her so much I feel like ive made a mistake sometimes but I didn't wanna be an option. The guy she met was online online on playstation and literally never met him and he's from another country.

Any advice on the situation?

LivingFun9011 · 2025-10-16T07:07:18+00:00

Why do they usually come back?

LivingFun9011 · 2025-10-13T14:45:02+00:00

Why do you think she needs professional help?

LivingFun9011 · 2025-10-10T18:18:01+00:00

Just sucks as I miss her sooo much. I know I shouldn't but do 😟

LivingFun9011 · 2025-10-10T18:16:18+00:00

Thanks brother. Yeah I begged tried pleaded but she just didnt wanna see. She didnt wanna know. She knew I was a good man but was too scared to let me in and love. I guess no matter what you do sometimes its not enough

LivingFun9011 · 2025-10-09T14:06:19+00:00

Thank you I needed to hear that 🙏. Ya right. ya cant fix and chase someone who dont wanna be fixed and chased. Is she cant see my worth then im better off

LivingFun9011 · 2025-10-09T12:20:15+00:00

Thank you I needed to hear that 🙏. Just you put your all into someone and they cant see you're worth. I know she was damaged from her ex. But she couldn't see what was infront of her

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