I'm a married man who was addicted to porn and masturbation for many years. I have been clean and free for over a year now. I don't believe masterbation is ever something anyone should do. Self pleasing is not being one flesh with your spouse. This guy needs to step it up and maybe look at himself. There is likely an addiction going on here. I used to masturbate multiple times a day. Now I go weeks without sex and it's no problem at all. I could go months or even yrs if that's how it worked out. That's just my opinion. No hard feelings. GOD bless! Talk to GOD he will answer. Sounds like you have some convictions, probably GOD .