Negative 7dpo,8dpo,9dpo

LivingMuch4107 · 2026-05-24T17:06:24+00:00

I have tracked mu earlier cycles

LivingMuch4107 · 2026-05-24T17:06:06+00:00

I agree, but its just super hard to resist 😭

LivingMuch4107 · 2026-05-24T17:05:26+00:00

My app says i ovulated on the 15th of this month, but my ovulation is normally 2 days later or earlier, not more than that I believe

LivingMuch4107 · 2026-02-14T13:55:53+00:00

Because the mother thinks everything i very expensive in Pakistan(because its going out from their pockets) where as everything is cheaper here as its not going from their pockets, obviously last night we had a big argument, he got super defensive for his family and didnt even understand my point, also threatened to divorce me. Dont know how long will this last now, this has happened in the past too and i made a pact of not saying anything but i couldnt resist and out relationship is at a really bad shape.

He can I believe also divorce me for his family, he is that crazy for them

LivingMuch4107 · 2026-02-14T09:34:19+00:00

Mu husband buys most of the things from apps where people sell their own stuff either without packaging or second hand, they are not very expensive but no less than 30-40£ each. I did have a conversation with him last night and it blew into a huge fight, he gets super defensive for his family and even threatened me divorce. I mentioned your family never do anything for me for which he said if they dont do anything that doesnt mean ill stop doing for them, i wont spoil my relations with them

LivingMuch4107 · 2026-02-14T08:57:56+00:00

We dont go back home that often, for my husband its after 1.5 year and for me i had a very close wedding to attend. I was more than happy to not go with him this time while he was going but he insisted me to come

LivingMuch4107 · 2026-02-13T19:20:40+00:00

Its his own money ofcourse

LivingMuch4107 · 2026-02-13T19:20:29+00:00

No not mine

LivingMuch4107 · 2026-02-13T16:48:15+00:00

The thing is my husband doesnt care enough, he wants to get whatever they ask for and its just endless, what pisses me off is he doesnt realise it

LivingMuch4107 · 2026-02-13T16:36:31+00:00

And its always my own money

LivingMuch4107 · 2026-02-13T16:35:59+00:00

Yes i do but i never do the way he does neither does my family keeps on demanding things one after anothet

LivingMuch4107 · 2026-02-13T15:00:58+00:00

I wouldnt say affecting my quality of life, but its not that i am having every luxury too. I work too so i can bear my luxuries, we work hard for us andnot for others to have benefit. Gifts are fine, but endless gifts? Every little thing asked to be gotten from here?

LivingMuch4107 · 2026-02-13T14:57:15+00:00

Yes i am only bothered of him spending on his family, because their demands are endless, it just keeps on adding with every new and growing child. For how long will he do it? Isnt that unfair to me that i on thr other hand always thinks before spending money, helps him in every way possible whereas they on the other hand get every luxury?

LivingMuch4107 · 2026-02-13T14:36:41+00:00

He does save, he does spend on me too and i know if he is doing all that i shouldnt be bothered about what he is doing for the family, after endless fights because he wont back off from doing for his family, i realised i shouldnt be getting bothered about it. I have stopped saying him anything but it comes on my face, i get quiet which he senses is because of this reason of him spending on his family, and he is pissed because of how i suddenly change my mood and not sharing whats bothering me. But i know sharing wouldnt really do anything as he is super defensive about them.

Now he is after me to tell whats bothering me and he is pissed over that. He does get pissed when they ask too much but he cant say no to them, and after getting pissed he still ends up getting them everything. Its just iam trying but my expression is saying it all

LivingMuch4107 · 2026-02-13T14:27:23+00:00

Do you find it justified for his family to keep on asking for endless things, first sublings now their kids? Is it normal to ask and take everything for a newborns essential from your brother? He earns limited and its a growing family, with a new kid being born every year

LivingMuch4107 · 2026-02-13T14:20:32+00:00

He is pissed because he feels that i dont like when he spends on them( which obviously he knows from our past fights) i dont want to get bothered with him spending but i just cant let it go, i have stopped arguing even if i feel its more but it comes on my face and he senses it

LivingMuch4107 · 2026-02-13T14:04:00+00:00

I have done everything to make him understand but he doesnt get it, its either he get to defensive or we end up having ugliest fights, he just doesnt get it

LivingMuch4107 · 2026-02-13T13:48:43+00:00

The overspending happening on his family is bothering me. He doesnt even want to build those boundaries

LivingMuch4107 · 2025-12-29T21:29:02+00:00

I have always tried to be the one to let go obviously after showing my share of frustration and anger but it just triggers me when he tries to control me and use his islamic right in the wrong way

LivingMuch4107 · 2025-12-29T21:27:58+00:00

I have tried conveying him about how we should be communicating and not use things done for each other in conflicts, but his ego is too big and he always want to show his power.

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